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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 10:29 AM   #1
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Hello ladies,
Its been 9 days since I gave birth to the most precious little girl and I am so lucky and thankful to have her .... but.... I miss being pregnant. I am over the moon that she's here and I can see her and touch her and comfort her etc. However I miss feeling her inside me, I miss the countdown to milestones like scans and 'due in 99 days' etc. I wanna be pregnant again. I didn't have the most perfect of labours/deliveries with Jess but having her here made it all worthwhile. Am I weird for missing my bump or are these normal feelings?
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 10:31 AM   #2
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Completely normal. I was the same for ages. I actually found myself having a little cry a couple of times. Even now I still really miss it but I don't feel so emotional about it. I feel like I've really lost something though.
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 11:48 AM   #3
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i know im gonna miss my bump i have been rubbing and looking at all the time the last fews days who knows how long i have left with it x
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 12:21 PM   #4
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No, I can say that after the birth of my two others, I didn't miss the bump. I was excited to have my babies, and excited to get back to normal.

It's so sweet hearing these stories of others missing their bump.
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 15:48 PM   #5
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I'm sure its normal but I have to say, like Lee-Anne, I wont miss mine!! I cant wait to get my little girl and I dont actually mind being pregnant but once the bumps gone, I'll be happy to get back to normal!
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 15:59 PM   #6
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I can't imagine missing it but I won't jump ahead!

It's sweet,but how precious is your baby girl,if your bump was here she wouldn't be...xxx
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 16:01 PM   #7
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Aww, at the min I just want LO out but I know I'll miss my bump once she is. Feeling her hiccups and watching her kicking the hell outta me
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 18:51 PM   #8
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Don't get me wrong I'm over the moon that she's here and she's safe I just miss the bond I had with her when she was part of me. Watching her make my belly move, feeling the bumps in my belly and wondering if its an elbow or a knee etc. Think I'm just a daft moo lol xXx
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 20:23 PM   #9
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No way! I really missed my bump and it is quite a change to get used to being one person again. For weeks after I had Charlie I would forget that the ticks and pangs weren't his feet in my ribs but my uterus contracting back down.

I used to love seeing the outline of his foot in my tummy. It is normal and you do get used to it and to be honest, the fact that I missed it so much is why I'm pregnant now. I wanted another one before he'd even turned 1.
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Old Jun 13th, 2008, 20:28 PM   #10
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i didnt realise how much i missed my bump until i was pg for the 2nd time. i love the kicks and movements and its nice to know that there is something in my belly and its just not fat ha! its the 1st time i ever feel nice about my body but i will have the baby and stretch marks to remember oh and i have taken a couple more photos of bump this time i think its totally normal 2 miss it xxx
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