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May 21st, 2008, 16:58 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | You are not being stupid at all hun - like Becky said, he should have refused when they told him what he had to do. If it was my OH he would have had a good talking to by now. Does he think thats acceptable behaviour with a pregnant partner at home?
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May 21st, 2008, 17:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh hun you are not being irrational at all. I would have gone ballistic. Was a bottle of champagne really worth kissing another girl? I think you should talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Thanks so much ladies, I will talk to him later. I don't feel as silly for being upset about it now  |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:07 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I'm totally opposite to you, lol. I would'nt have just said ok about it, i would have told him where to go there & then. Not only has he got a pregnant girlfriend, but he's actually snogged some other girl behind your back! It's still classed as cheating in my eyes. People are different about things, but just do what you thinks best. Is he gonna do it again? because you've not gone mad about it? Or is he going to realise it was stupid and learn too respect his gf? X |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:15 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by xXDonnaXx  I'm totally opposite to you, lol. I would'nt have just said ok about it, i would have told him where to go there & then. Not only has he got a pregnant girlfriend, but he's actually snogged some other girl behind your back! It's still classed as cheating in my eyes. People are different about things, but just do what you thinks best. Is he gonna do it again? because you've not gone mad about it? Or is he going to realise it was stupid and learn too respect his gf? X | I would have told him where to go straight away if it hadn't have been for a competition. I will not tolerate cheating ever. Argh, I'm so confused. But I am going to say something. Once he'd told me about the girl he sort of backtracked and said 'well i'm not even sure I touched her actually.' |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:23 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Yeah. Just have a chat with him, and tell him how you feel about it, and you would prefer it if he does'nt do it again. Competition or not. Hope everythings ok |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I agree with the girls....Competition or not i would of told my OH where to go!!! If he trys to say your being stupid ask him how he would feel if you snogged a lad in town forgot to tell him....but it was ok as it was for a competition?!? I dont think he would think it silly then...
MEN have such double standards!!!  Em XXXX |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Quote:
Originally Posted by bexy_22 I know if I say to him it upset me he'll just be like, don't be stupid, it was only for a laugh. | At laugh at who's expense?
If that were my OH he'd be out the door. It's easy enough to pass something off as a laugh, and if you accept him kissing other girls then where is the line? |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:51 PM
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Originally Posted by rafwife At laugh at who's expense?
If that were my OH he'd be out the door. It's easy enough to pass something off as a laugh, and if you accept him kissing other girls then where is the line? | I totally agree. If i don't say something he's going to think it's ok for him to do it again 'for a laugh'
you've all made me see sense |
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May 21st, 2008, 17:53 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | The fact that he is backtracking his story shows that he feels guilty, and knows what he did is wrong too. |
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