Katharine-ann

How does everyone get along with their OH's family..?

armychicmkm

My OH's family is great..... It's my family that's the problem!

doctordeesmrs

I'm exactly the same

momandpeanut

Mine are fantastic ! I can sit and chat with the mil and sil like they are friends

Im very lucky

Gems

His Mum is an absolute nightmare !! Ha ha
Luckily she lives in Germany and we only see her twice a year but when we doing she is just awful. Tells me im doing everything wrong and puts me down all the time. She reckons she is coming to stay the week after baby is born ! No way at all am i having that !! I wont need her telling me what to do and what im doing wrong with regards to my baby.

My family and my OH is a different sorry tho, they get on so well and treat him like a son, he gets on so well with my parents and he even goes to their place without me ! Their relationship is great.

Katharine-ann

Hmmm, was going to have a little rant about mine but dont think i will boar you all!

So i will just moan a little bit!!!

Mine were fine, but all of a sudden (since i fell pregnant) They are not in the slightest bit interested in how i am, how the baby is, ect. i feel my family are being so supportive and the in-laws are pretending it isnt happening!
Just makes me upset as my family are being so nice...

Gems

I know exactly what you mean hun, im in the same situation. Atleast we have great families who care and are as excited as us ! I have to call my dad every other night to give him an update. He was so excited when i felt my first kick !! Bless him !

Katharine-ann

I know how u feel! My family and my OH can just get on like a house on fire, but i just cant seem to like his mother/sister. They were nice, all of a sudden they are to wrapped up in their stupid (and they really are stupid!) little problems! My OH is so soft he cannot see it, he just wants every1 to get along, but i feel when baby comes, She will butt in and try and tell me what to do and how to do it!

Worse still, we are going to be living litrally 10secs away from her!!

Gems

Worse still, we are going to be living litrally 10secs away from her!! [/quote]

Oh no, nightmare !!
When my OH's brothers girlfriend had their baby, his mother forcefully got her breast out and forced the baby on it, even tho she didnt wanna breast feed. Rachel just sat there too shocked that she had actually done it to stop her !!
She's a fruit loop !

Katharine-ann

Oh no, nightmare !!
When my OH's brothers girlfriend had their baby, his mother forcefully got her breast out and forced the baby on it, even tho she didnt wanna breast feed. Rachel just sat there too shocked that she had actually done it to stop her !!
She's a fruit loop ![/quote]

Ok, i dont think she will be that bad! But she just assumes we want all this 2nd hand junk! dont get me wrong, i love people giving us stuff, its very thoughful, but i mean she wants to give us stuff thats sat up her loft since she had her last child, 13 flipping years ago!!!!!

It feels good to have a little rant about her!

His dad is lovely. Hes very quiet and being very kind to us giving us a piece of his land at no cost (hence the reason i will be living so close to HER!) It just seems to be the women in my OH's family that despise me!!