rach,
hope everything turns out okay hun,
i had a scare when i was getting my tonsils taken out when i was 19, they told me they found a lump in my throat behind my tonsils and wanted to send me for further tests... to say i was sh*tting my knickers is and understatement.
i understand how lost and confused you must feel hun... I felt terrible.
luckily it turned out to just be a benign cyst but still had me in tears everynight for 2 weeks while i waited i didnt tell anyone at all, should of done but didnt couldnt face it, just talk to your mum or whoever about your feelings i didnt and ended up getting myself all worked up and snapping at anyone and everyone to a point where my dad asked if i was on drugs... lovely.
just dont bottle it up.
if you need to talk chicken you know where i am xxx
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i told my auntie before an she is jus in shock, she really didn't know what to say, she just didnt look at me! i felt like i was some kind of freak or summit. i just wan this horrible nightmare to end an i wake up an everythings fine again x
i told my auntie before an she is jus in shock, she really didn't know what to say, she just didnt look at me! i felt like i was some kind of freak or summit. i just wan this horrible nightmare to end an i wake up an everythings fine again x
its hard rach but you'll get through it no matter what your made of strong stuff what with all the things you've dealt with in your pregnancy alone.
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I read in my book and elsewhere that if you get a sore lump on your breast while pregnant it's most likely a clogged milk duct.. I can't remember exactly how to make it go away, but I wouldn't worry over nothing if I were you, if problems arise deal with them as they come but don't take the extra stress now your little man doesn't need that. I know easier said than done, but please try to stay positive and strong, I know you will.
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I read in my book and elsewhere that if you get a sore lump on your breast while pregnant it's most likely a clogged milk duct.. I can't remember exactly how to make it go away, but I wouldn't worry over nothing if I were you, if problems arise deal with them as they come but don't take the extra stress now your little man doesn't need that. I know easier said than done, but please try to stay positive and strong, I know you will.
i know about the breast thing when your pregnant but its a lump i've had for 18 months, its just gradually grew over time. i know bump doesnt need me bein stressed at the minute, i think its just shock. i really don't know what to expect when i go the clinic but one thng is for sure, i will be ok for my babies sake!