Hi my storys real long and dont have time to tel it all but basically i wanna no if i cant deny i dna test.. my ex partner wants a dna even tho ive told him the baby is NOT his... im with the dad and we just wanna get on with out lives my ex and his family arent nice ppl.. his sister and mum even threatened to kick the baby out eh me.. and i just dont wanna go thru the whole dna test.. can i deny it?
He has to pay for it. I'm not sure if you can deny it or not, but he'd have to be willing to chuck out over 1000 dollars for it. That's why so many people go on shows like Maury, cause they do it for free lol.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to rae05 for this post:
thanks! I live over in scotland not sure how much it is here but im 99% sure he aint the dad.. just the 1% of me in terrified he is.. he wouldnt make a goiod dad he shouted at my daughter all the time thats y i left.. id hate him to be in my kids life..
If you don't want him to have a DNA test, and he wants one, then I assume he'd have to take you to civil court for the right to DNA test, and Rae is right, it's a hell of a lot of money.
If I were you I'd go to a solicitors office and see what your rights are, and if the solicitor can write him a letter to the above effect saying that if he wants it, then he has to pay for it.
After that, I would cut ties with him and not answer any calls and tell him that he has to go through official means to contact you or else you'll deem it as harassment.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to rafwife for this post:
Im not sure if you can deny him of it or not, but maybe it's worth it anyway. It would make it look more like he is the dad if you flat out refuse to do it.
I hope everything works out for you
xxx
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The following user says 'Thanks' to Linzi for this post:
Iv refused to pay and hes sed he'l pay! id b terrified if he was his! his mums mental she cant get a bank account cos there worried its drug money and iv had alot eh his family threatenin me!! i really dont wanna hav one in case that 1%he cud b is right :'(
If his family are threatening you then go to the police. Don't put up with it hun, especially if they aren't even related to your child! If I were you I would go through a solicitor and have EVERYTHING recorded. If he's saying he'll pay, then get it put in writing and have him sign it.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to rafwife for this post:
ive only got 9 weeks left and im really makin me self ill worryin bout it. if he turned out to be the dad id lose everything with the guy im with now.. and hes great with my daughter she loves him to bits.. sounds like im selfish and doin it 4 myself but im not.. hes so strick.. one time we were down at my parents caravan and my daughter whos 2 hadnt finished all her dinner we went to th entertainment thet nyt and he bought crisps she asked for one and he sed no u didnt eat ur dinner so he sat there eatin them in front of her so i went and bought her some he shouted at me infront of everyone then went out in a bad mood!! thats just one of many times hes already told me his mums allowed to smoke in front of him if there at her house... !! its all gettin me down!
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