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Old Mar 8th, 2010, 18:02 PM   #1
Kimberley1875
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so upset


I posted a few days ago about my other half basically being a knob
yesterday i had a fall...had to go to hospital he ended up walking out on me after a argument...
Today he said we could talk on friday and try and sort things...now hes just decided he doesnt want to stay together and wont even try to sort thing...im absolutly devested iv not ate or slept since last night with worry about the baby and stress from him...now im even worse...i know people are gona say im better without him...but im not i love him to peices and dont think i can cope with the baby myself x


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Old Mar 8th, 2010, 18:14 PM   #2
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oh hunni, try not to be upset. I know its easier said than done but you must make yourself number one priority for the time being, your baby needs a healthy mummy and for that you need to eat and sleep.
You don't have to look after the baby and do everything on your own there is plenty of help out there, and I have 2 friends that are single parents and they are doing great actually one of my friends is in a relationship and she's worse off coz all they do is fight and argue and its not good for their son or them and she constantly unhappy.

Think of yourself for a bit, your hormones are up the wall and your emotions are running wild (and men don't get that)

Plus hun it doesn't matter what other people say about him, you know how you feel and it will hurt but you will get stronger and learn to deal, and if in time your partner realises his mistake then you can decide what's best for you and your son and whether you want him in your life, until then be positive and think of the miracle growing inside you xxx


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Old Mar 8th, 2010, 18:55 PM   #3
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I know i need to think of the baby but im so upset i cant sleep...and everytime i try to eat i throw up...iv honestly never been this upset before and dont know what to do xxx


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Old Mar 9th, 2010, 09:06 AM   #4
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Anyone who can do this to you when you are pregnant can't love you like they should, and you deserve to be loved, and it is never worth being with someone who doesn't feel the same way as you.
When your baby is born you will realise what 'the love of your life' means!
You are very hurt, and heartbreak is the most gutwrenchingly painful thing to go through, I know he is not worth it won't wash, sadly it takes time to realise these things.
I can't help you, only say try to look after yourself, and when the baby is here and you are back to yourself you may just see things in a different light, pregnancy makes us very vunerable, you may not need him as much as you thought.


 
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Old Mar 9th, 2010, 09:31 AM   #5
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i know but im hoping it does sort itself out im just scared that if not im not sure how to cope on my own with a baby...iv already asked my mum if instead of moving out on my own if i can stay at home maybe the first few months...not sure if thats the right choice tho xxx


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Old Mar 13th, 2010, 18:02 PM   #6
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Sounds like a good idea to me, that extra support in the first few months would be great.
If your Mum is happy to do that then it keeps you settled in your environment, and even someone else being in the same place is support, when you most need it


 
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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 03:41 AM   #7
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So sorry this has happened...I would see how it goes for a few days, baby will be okay for a few, but if you're still not eating and sleeping after after a few days I'd speak to your mw or dr and explain that you'er worried about the baby and to see if they can suggest something to help you get those nutrients your missing and destress. I know how hard it is when someone you love hurts you and wow it does hurt, so I understand how your feeling and it doesn't help when you have the added stress of keeping yourself well for your baby.


 
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Old Mar 14th, 2010, 04:56 AM   #8
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i'm so sorry u r going thru this i think staying with your mum is a good idea, it will give u support in the early days of bringing up baby. i know your world must feel like it's ended now but hopefully in time the hurt will pass and dim


 
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