No OH?

nikkia08 · Mar 1st, 2010, 13:59 PM

Hi mummys, just wanted to start a thread for women without the help and support of OH's. Posted this originally in 3rd Tri but obviously relates to all mummys

Im expecting my second bundle of joy on 1st of April and have done absolutely everything myself.... it was an unplanned pregnancy and a bit of a shock to say the least but I cant wait to meet my baby. I was with my sons daddy first time round but unfortunatly we split up over a year ago..... Im now a single mummy to my first son (hell be 3 in June) and although its been alot harder going it alone this time Ive actually found it alot more rewarding knowing ive managed to keep my cool lol. Unfortunatly this ones daddy has hardly any involvement if none (not through my choice)

Anymore pregnant woman out there going it alone? Feel like Im the only one reading past threads

xxx

babythinkpink · Mar 2nd, 2010, 08:24 AM

Didn't want to read and run, I have been a single Mum twice now and to be honest the Daddy's I choose at the time we were all better without!
I loved it being just me and the children, no one to share them with, and I did all the work anyway!
I am happily married now to Mr Right, and I had 3 children when we met, so we are just finishing off our little contribution to the family now!

Good luck with your baby,

Thinkpink xx

Jetters · Mar 2nd, 2010, 10:05 AM

You're not alone, there's lots of us on here! Check out the 'single parents' section xx

LittleAurora · Mar 2nd, 2010, 10:47 AM

I'm not alone but just wanted to say i have a lot of admiration single mums! keeping everything running smoothly! you deserve a medal!

DreaminOfBaby · Mar 3rd, 2010, 23:12 PM

Yup me too, no OH in my life. I'm still having a hard time figuring out whether or not I'll even tell him because I'm moving 2000 miles away and I also found out that he's been stealing from us so I really don't want anything to do with him so it's made things harder on me. Thankfully I'll have the help of my mom which will make things a lot easier on me but I'm already missing not having a husband to share in the joy of having a baby. But I oddly have always felt like I'd end up being a single mom, at least this way I can do things MY way and teach him or her NOT to be a frickin' thief like his/her father!

Linz88 · Mar 4th, 2010, 08:31 AM

single mommy 2 b here too xx

Mar 1st, 2010, 13:59 PM	#1
nikkia08 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 201	No OH? Hi mummys, just wanted to start a thread for women without the help and support of OH's. Posted this originally in 3rd Tri but obviously relates to all mummys Im expecting my second bundle of joy on 1st of April and have done absolutely everything myself.... it was an unplanned pregnancy and a bit of a shock to say the least but I cant wait to meet my baby. I was with my sons daddy first time round but unfortunatly we split up over a year ago..... Im now a single mummy to my first son (hell be 3 in June) and although its been alot harder going it alone this time Ive actually found it alot more rewarding knowing ive managed to keep my cool lol. Unfortunatly this ones daddy has hardly any involvement if none (not through my choice) Anymore pregnant woman out there going it alone? Feel like Im the only one reading past threads xxx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 08:24 AM	#2
babythinkpink Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 2,878	Didn't want to read and run, I have been a single Mum twice now and to be honest the Daddy's I choose at the time we were all better without! I loved it being just me and the children, no one to share them with, and I did all the work anyway! I am happily married now to Mr Right, and I had 3 children when we met, so we are just finishing off our little contribution to the family now! Good luck with your baby, Thinkpink xx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 10:05 AM	#3
Jetters Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: London Posts: 5,033	You're not alone, there's lots of us on here! Check out the 'single parents' section xx

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Mar 2nd, 2010, 10:47 AM	#4
LittleAurora Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 2,678	I'm not alone but just wanted to say i have a lot of admiration single mums! keeping everything running smoothly! you deserve a medal!

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Mar 3rd, 2010, 23:12 PM	#5
DreaminOfBaby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: USA Posts: 198	Yup me too, no OH in my life. I'm still having a hard time figuring out whether or not I'll even tell him because I'm moving 2000 miles away and I also found out that he's been stealing from us so I really don't want anything to do with him so it's made things harder on me. Thankfully I'll have the help of my mom which will make things a lot easier on me but I'm already missing not having a husband to share in the joy of having a baby. But I oddly have always felt like I'd end up being a single mom, at least this way I can do things MY way and teach him or her NOT to be a frickin' thief like his/her father!

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Mar 4th, 2010, 08:31 AM	#6
Linz88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: West Brom\Bham, Uk Posts: 1,679	single mommy 2 b here too xx

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