Honestly I don't see my MIL being a problem (she did ask me about the BF but once I told her no she was very supportive and dropped the subject). It's this particular aunt--don't know if she means it as interference but that's what it comes off as I always knew she was going to ask about the cats and BF so can't say I was surprised at all yesterday when the subjects came up Saying that I didn't take any offense to it, actually found the entire situation funny (as I said I'm quite stubborn and in the end will do whatever I want to do)

You be the mom you want to be and parent the way you want too. There are no set rules for bringing up children and each does it differently

I thought the entire situation with your aunt was funny too.