I think if we knew what children we would have we would relax a little if that makes sense. I really really hope to have another little boy one day, this time to see grow up. I just wish there was a way of knowing that I would for definate then I could be truely happy. I'm more than happy that I'm having a little girl but say the next one is a girl I will really hope for a boy the next time if that makes sense? xxx

It definitely does, and you're right - it would make it a lot easier.

I think gender scanning is really important in a way, because it can make it much easier to bond with your unborn bubs when you know their gender (exciting as a surprise would be, and I'm just nosy ). Your angel is beautiful, I'm so sorry for your loss. My fingers are crossed for you that you'll have another little boy one day, I understand where you're coming from with that for sure. In a way I suppose it would give you an idea of what your little man may have looked like or been like if you had seen him grow up. And also because it would be lovely to have boys and girls, as each are so different to raise xx

Hi -I cant really say I know how you feel -cos I have already got 1 daughter, but I must admit when ttc I was really hoping for a wee girl (my two boys are gorgeous and I love them to bits but would like to even the score lol )

Anyway now I am expecting I really just want a healthy bubs, but... I still hope it might be a pink one, but doubt it -so we are definatly going to find out the babies sex (need to prepare, dont want any feelings of disappointment on the day iykwim? -really dont think there will bee any gender disappointment here either but want to prepare anyway.)

congrats on your lil boy btw - lil boys are so cute I love my two to bits xx

When i was having my DS i knew he was a boy from the day i got the BFP..got him Boys clothes etc..then the day he was born and they told me he was a Boy, i told them i had known that all along..
This time i felt i was having a Girl, i felt completely different in all ways, had it in my head that she was Girl..so OH said we should have a gender scan..so we did and were told it was a Girl. We left and i was so happy..her name was Isabelle and she was going to be perfect. Only the OH wasnt as excited, said to get a 2nd opinion..21 hours and 20 mins later we were told our Daughter was in fact a Boy.
My heart broke, as stupid as it sounds i actually felt like my Daughter had been taken away..i am ashamed to admit i cried for 2 days, every time i thought of this Boy that had replaced my Daughter i cried..i came here and read posts and it dawned on me, my Baby was healthy and after 14 months of TTC we had a healthy Baby Boy and there were people here that had been trying for years to get pregnant and couldnt, people that had been through so many procedures to finally get pregnant, people who had lost their Babies before birth and people who had lost them afterwards..it made me realise how lucky we were to have a healthy Baby.
Dont get me wrong, i still think about what if etc and im damn luck i found out after only 21 hours rather than months later..but now i cant wait to meet my little Boy and to be the Mummy to two wonderful little Men <3

I have 2girls and really want a boy to complete the family....not til my scan so hopefully be a blue bump

Sending blue vibes your way !! x

Sending lots of blue dust your way!!

i know exactly what you mean i have always wanted a little girl and if i found out i was having a boy bi would be over the moon just the same as if it was a girl but i would feel the same tbh