I think no matter what you do someone is always going to compare you to someone they know or comment on your weight gain, etc.... I have heard it all it seems like. If it does happen, don't let it get you down (easier said than done). Everyone grows at a different rate and everyone puts weight on in different places, no one is the same. I really wish people would realize that and quit giving us pregnant women a complex, lol!!! Also, if you want to be open about your pregnancy, then by all means talk about it all you want. I know I do and people are probably sick of me by now but I don't care. I'm creating a life inside me, something I thought I would never do in my lifetime.
We are all here on B & B if you need us. I know that I ask tons of questions and I have my rants as well. This place is great because everyone knows what you are going through.
