vicky

Hun it will get better, my hubby doesn't seem to show much interesterd in this preganancy or when i was preganant with my daughter. He knows the babies coming and he keeps mentioning how big i'm getting. My Hubby does the same as yours whats his day's off to do what he wants even if it is to spend all day on the computer and get on my nerves cos just want to spend time with him.

amy_tea

Hope you feel better soon. my OH didn't seem all that interested either until i really started to get a bump. I think he's just unsure of how i'd like him to act since its all new for us.

I try to include him when i am picking out stuff to buy for the baby because he is totally indecisive. Try talkin 2 him 2 tell him how you feel and i hope he starts giving you the love and attention you deserve

xxx

Mrs-N

thank you everyone.
well yesterday was fab,he came home from work and he was a different person, loads of cuddles and we were laughing and joking together.
it was like how it was when we first started seeing each other.

ill have to wait and see how its gonna be when he gets home tonight.

thanks again to all of you. x x

babe2ooo

i so understand how you feel the last few days i have felt like that you just need to talk 2 him dont get mad think about it 1st, i keep getting mad and then my OH doesnt bother, but when i'm nice and we talk he understands, hope that helps

Rumpskin

Oh Mrs Newberry.

How is he now?

xx

Mrs-N

thanks for asking.

he has be fine since,so fingers crossed it will stay like that.

thanks again x x

Moulder86

I envy ladies who have the support of their OH or the fact that their OH are even interested.

My babies daddy and I are no longer together but still spend a lot of time together (most evenings & weekends) but he never has been that interested in us (me and Peanit). I feel really alone, as most of my friends don't care either, I hate it. So I know how you feel, I'm glad he has started to change is tune though!!
xx

Pixie5120

dunno if this is helpful at all... so im sorry if its not, but in the film "Juno" one of the characters says that a woman becomes a mother when she becomes pregnant, a man doesnt become a father until the baby is born. you have the bub in you and you can feel it (even if it isnt moving yet) and feel yourself being pregnant (bad way to put it, sorry) but men dont have that, especially before there is anything tangible to show for the pregnancy, they basically just have the fact. youre pregnant. hard to feel excited about something that they cant see or feel. though its not a nice feeling for you at all and im very glad he is being better with you hope you have a very happy little family when bub is born

Mrs-N

oh thats excellent how you described that.
every woman should be told that a man doesnt become a father until baby is born.
thank you for that.
i am happy now so hopefully it will only get better. x x