Moulder86

Ok well the babies dad want's to find out the sex when we go for our next scan and I'm not 100% sure yet, we've got till March to decide.

I know a lot of you have chosen to find out the sex but I was wondering what people would suggest??

My Nan went on at me about keeping it a surprise and it really annoyed me because at the end of the day I'll do what I want, I'm not going to not find out just to keep her happy (I just won't tell her) but I'm unsure about it.

Stace xx

doctordeesmrs

My OH and i want to keep it a surprise but i haven't even had my 1st scan yet and i know once i see our little prawn i'm going to want to know at the next scan what we're having but hubby really doesnt.

fifi83

My OH wants to no, and i didnt but i gave in a said ok, i just hope baby as legs crossed.

I like the idea of a suprise.

Jazzy

Me and my OH didn't want to know but the sonographer came out with it by mistake

hr.lr.07

Me and my OH want to know, so we can plan things

Linzi

We want to know.

It can still be a secret from you if you arent sure. The sonographer could tell your OH when you're out of the room or write it down or something, you just want to hope your OH is good at keeping a secret!

We would like to know just purely out of curiosity. I would like a suprise, but I dont think I could wait that long! Everyone is different though

xxx

cupcake

i agree with everything linzi said, let them tell you OH and tell him you dont want to know, when u do u can always find out, its not a once off offer
i have a policy of not telling anyone else even tho we want to know, its our little secret

babyblessed

Is like christmas I found, I wanted to know with my first and then when I found out felt like I had opened my presents too early and didn't have surprise anymore!!! So this time we are waiting...doesn't meen I don't want to know though

Think you both need to think the same as each other though so talk it over lots till you feel confident in your decision.

AquaDementia

i am having a suprise baby and it's so awesome still not knowing!

doctordeesmrs

babyblessed i'm really worried about that Christmas feeling that's exactly how i described it to OH. Part of me wants to be surprised and the other part wants to be organised.