My brother and I are 6 years apart. We didnt get along that great growing up, but I think that was because of my brother(long story) For this baby The biggest age gap will be 12 yrs . Joel my step son is 7, Im kinda scared about the big gap, but I think it will work out good because they LOVE to help out. I did want two children of my own...but I guess that wount be happening lol

We have said 3-4 years. That way one will be in pre school already. Just a little break to be able to handle 2. lol. Since we are having a little boy first we are hoping for a little girl next.

Theres a 41/2year age gap between nicole and callum and for me its great. I dont think i could have managed with 2 small kids, but everyone is different.

Nicole is like a little mother to callum and helps me out alot. And because she is older she doesnt need constant attention.Also i can give callum my full attention when she is at school.

5 years between mine and my body never went back 100% in between although i gained loads of weight and had a large baby first time

dont think there is any right or wrong answers...down to personal experience i have 3 boys aged
aaron....8 nearly 9 in march
lewis.....6 year old 7 in june
nathan..3 nearly 4 in march....
and my fourth also due in march..... so this one has the biggest age gap....which is a girl....

Our son is 8 yrs old and daughter is 11 months old, so a big age gap. The advantage is that our 8 year is very helpful and helps give us a break feeding etc..