ideally OH wants 4 and ideally I want 3.
but for now, number one has arrived and I will avoid getting pregnant soon again! (def time for a coil now

)
we said we will wait unleast two years that I can get myself a break from all the physical strains.
as well I do not want to get pregnant after 35 and as I am 31 already and OH is with his 40 years really an old furt (also love to tease him 'bout his age

) I am not sure if we can manage more than two.
ideally the second one will be a boy
