I give up again.

Serene123 · Dec 12th, 2007, 19:44 PM

You're all going to tell me I'm over-reacting or that it's my hormones but when he said those words "you should've just got rid of the thing!" I just AHHHHHH!!

I wish you all knew how horrible he can be.

honeybunch2k7 · Dec 12th, 2007, 21:54 PM

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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH

You're all going to tell me I'm over-reacting or that it's my hormones but when he said those words "you should've just got rid of the thing!" I just AHHHHHH!!

I wish you all knew how horrible he can be.

It's not your hormones, and you're not over reacting. That just wasn't nice at all!!!

luckyme225 · Dec 12th, 2007, 22:41 PM

That was a horrible thing for him to tell you. I would have smacked him... lol but thats me!

justme00 · Dec 12th, 2007, 22:41 PM

Pardon my french but what a Jackass! Why would he say such a thing?

Jo · Dec 13th, 2007, 03:09 AM

That is a nasty thing to say
If he so horrid to you get rid of him, you don't need someone like that in your life

Stef · Dec 13th, 2007, 03:29 AM

Toria...
Prehaps at times you're not over reacting. I agree it is an awful thing to say and if you beleive these are his true colours then why not get shot of him for the sake of having a healthy future with your LO?

And if you want to make this work then he needs to get to the bottom of his feelings and exactly why he is feeling like this.

X

Layla · Dec 13th, 2007, 03:38 AM

i agree wtih baby bean, why would you want to stay with someone like that?!

My god if Jase ever said that to me, love him or not he would be out teh door with his bags behind him

x

LilysMummy · Dec 13th, 2007, 06:21 AM

Exactly what Layla said!!

No1 should get away with saying things like that

xx

xarlenex · Dec 13th, 2007, 07:52 AM

It is a horrible thing to say, but i'd give it time before chucking him or anything. The hormones n change are alot for him too. Maybe find he'll realise what hes said n apologise. People say things in the heat if the moment n really dont mean it.

But you know him better than anyone I guess and if you believe he meant it then hes really no good

Serene123 · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:16 AM

I don't know what he means anymore. At the beginning he really didn't want it. I kind of got that but he went too far then too. I told him the only way he would get me to get rid of it would be to cut it out of me. He said "don't tempt me." So since then I was abit distant. I was scared? I didn't know he could be so cold? So thoughtless? Lately, I thought he was over that. He said he was excited about stuff. Then last night out of nowhere he was on about us not being able to cope and that if I was brave enough to kill it we woudn't be in this mess. Now he's ignoring my calls. AHH

Dec 12th, 2007, 19:44 PM	#1
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	I give up again. You're all going to tell me I'm over-reacting or that it's my hormones but when he said those words "you should've just got rid of the thing!" I just AHHHHHH!! I wish you all knew how horrible he can be.

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luckyme225 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 6,111	That was a horrible thing for him to tell you. I would have smacked him... lol but thats me!

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justme00 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,147	Pardon my french but what a Jackass! Why would he say such a thing?

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Jo Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: West yorkshire Posts: 14,495	That is a nasty thing to say If he so horrid to you get rid of him, you don't need someone like that in your life

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Stef Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North East Posts: 6,725	Toria... Prehaps at times you're not over reacting. I agree it is an awful thing to say and if you beleive these are his true colours then why not get shot of him for the sake of having a healthy future with your LO? And if you want to make this work then he needs to get to the bottom of his feelings and exactly why he is feeling like this. X

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Layla Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: South Wales Posts: 6,732	i agree wtih baby bean, why would you want to stay with someone like that?! My god if Jase ever said that to me, love him or not he would be out teh door with his bags behind him x

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LilysMummy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: West Midlands Posts: 838	Exactly what Layla said!! No1 should get away with saying things like that xx

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xarlenex Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Bonny Scotland :) Posts: 3,339	It is a horrible thing to say, but i'd give it time before chucking him or anything. The hormones n change are alot for him too. Maybe find he'll realise what hes said n apologise. People say things in the heat if the moment n really dont mean it. But you know him better than anyone I guess and if you believe he meant it then hes really no good

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:16 AM	#10
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	I don't know what he means anymore. At the beginning he really didn't want it. I kind of got that but he went too far then too. I told him the only way he would get me to get rid of it would be to cut it out of me. He said "don't tempt me." So since then I was abit distant. I was scared? I didn't know he could be so cold? So thoughtless? Lately, I thought he was over that. He said he was excited about stuff. Then last night out of nowhere he was on about us not being able to cope and that if I was brave enough to kill it we woudn't be in this mess. Now he's ignoring my calls. AHH

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