You're all going to tell me I'm over-reacting or that it's my hormones but when he said those words "you should've just got rid of the thing!" I just AHHHHHH!! I wish you all knew how horrible he can be.

It's not your hormones, and you're not over reacting. That just wasn't nice at all!!!

That was a horrible thing for him to tell you. I would have smacked him... lol but thats me!

Pardon my french but what a Jackass! Why would he say such a thing?

That is a nasty thing to say
If he so horrid to you get rid of him, you don't need someone like that in your life

Toria...
Prehaps at times you're not over reacting. I agree it is an awful thing to say and if you beleive these are his true colours then why not get shot of him for the sake of having a healthy future with your LO?

And if you want to make this work then he needs to get to the bottom of his feelings and exactly why he is feeling like this.

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i agree wtih baby bean, why would you want to stay with someone like that?!

My god if Jase ever said that to me, love him or not he would be out teh door with his bags behind him

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Exactly what Layla said!!

No1 should get away with saying things like that

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It is a horrible thing to say, but i'd give it time before chucking him or anything. The hormones n change are alot for him too. Maybe find he'll realise what hes said n apologise. People say things in the heat if the moment n really dont mean it.

But you know him better than anyone I guess and if you believe he meant it then hes really no good

I don't know what he means anymore. At the beginning he really didn't want it. I kind of got that but he went too far then too. I told him the only way he would get me to get rid of it would be to cut it out of me. He said "don't tempt me." So since then I was abit distant. I was scared? I didn't know he could be so cold? So thoughtless? Lately, I thought he was over that. He said he was excited about stuff. Then last night out of nowhere he was on about us not being able to cope and that if I was brave enough to kill it we woudn't be in this mess. Now he's ignoring my calls. AHH