I give up again - Page 3

Serene123 · Dec 13th, 2007, 10:55 AM

I want to be with who he was before. When he wasn't selfish and he thought before he acted. He doesn't try to understand because he thinks what he's going through because I kept it is worse than what I am. I'm not saying he's not having a tuff time but I can't control myself, I am trying. I wish he'd try too. As for childish, he's 24 in less than a month! He really needs a reality slap.

tinytoes · Dec 13th, 2007, 11:22 AM

oh your poor girl!

He needs his Mum or Dad to have a big talk with him!!! Stay away for a while - keep your stress levels down. Can you sepak with his parents maybe?
He can't treat you like this.

OK, he's probably just scared and young. ..(24 is still young for some men!..i know my OH wasnt ready for kids until he was 32!)..but thats not an excuse. He needs to pull himself together and start supporting you. I would hope his friends and family would be disgusted by his words.

Was he drunk? Has there been drugs? (Not meaning to be judgemental, just wodnering why the sudden change of heart and mean behaviour!) Sounds like vicious words meant to hurt...really it's just cos he's scared. But it's not for you to make him unscared..

hang on in there. Think about you..

Jules · Dec 13th, 2007, 11:24 AM

He sure does LOL, it will only get tougher too when the baby comes! Hope you work things out x

Jenny · Dec 13th, 2007, 13:24 PM

I hope things work out for you both hon

elles28 · Dec 13th, 2007, 13:30 PM

He needs a good kick up the ass!! You shouldnt have to control your hormones he should be supporting you....I really think you would be better off without him...I think that someone who says vile things like that about THEIR OWN unborn child shouldnt be allowed the pleasure of being in the babies life.....I hope things get better for you soon

tinytoes · Dec 13th, 2007, 15:25 PM

yes, lets hope it all sorts out soon. dont get down

tinytoes · Dec 15th, 2007, 15:00 PM

you've been quiet lately kiddo, hope you're ok.

Serene123 · Dec 15th, 2007, 16:03 PM

I'm fine. Few aches and pains but everything else seems to be sorting itself out. Sure I'm going to be sick tonight though, just have a feeling. Me and OH have sorted things, again. I'm still mad about things hes said but I'm sure he isn't too happy about some of things I called him either. We just have to work through it for bump

Always&4ever · Dec 15th, 2007, 18:19 PM

Hun, your not over-reacting, its an awful thing for someone to say to you, *hugs*.. im here if you want to talk

goldlion · Dec 16th, 2007, 12:05 PM

Glad you've sorted things

x

Dec 13th, 2007, 10:55 AM	#21
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	I want to be with who he was before. When he wasn't selfish and he thought before he acted. He doesn't try to understand because he thinks what he's going through because I kept it is worse than what I am. I'm not saying he's not having a tuff time but I can't control myself, I am trying. I wish he'd try too. As for childish, he's 24 in less than a month! He really needs a reality slap.

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Dec 13th, 2007, 11:22 AM	#22
tinytoes Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: France Posts: 2,912	oh your poor girl! He needs his Mum or Dad to have a big talk with him!!! Stay away for a while - keep your stress levels down. Can you sepak with his parents maybe? He can't treat you like this. OK, he's probably just scared and young. ..(24 is still young for some men!..i know my OH wasnt ready for kids until he was 32!)..but thats not an excuse. He needs to pull himself together and start supporting you. I would hope his friends and family would be disgusted by his words. Was he drunk? Has there been drugs? (Not meaning to be judgemental, just wodnering why the sudden change of heart and mean behaviour!) Sounds like vicious words meant to hurt...really it's just cos he's scared. But it's not for you to make him unscared.. hang on in there. Think about you..

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Dec 13th, 2007, 11:24 AM	#23
Jules Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 1,812	He sure does LOL, it will only get tougher too when the baby comes! Hope you work things out x

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Dec 13th, 2007, 13:24 PM	#24
Jenny Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Edmonton, Alberta (Canada) Posts: 2,122	I hope things work out for you both hon

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Dec 13th, 2007, 13:30 PM	#25
elles28 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,401	He needs a good kick up the ass!! You shouldnt have to control your hormones he should be supporting you....I really think you would be better off without him...I think that someone who says vile things like that about THEIR OWN unborn child shouldnt be allowed the pleasure of being in the babies life.....I hope things get better for you soon

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Dec 13th, 2007, 15:25 PM	#26
tinytoes Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: France Posts: 2,912	yes, lets hope it all sorts out soon. dont get down

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Dec 15th, 2007, 15:00 PM	#27
tinytoes Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: France Posts: 2,912	you've been quiet lately kiddo, hope you're ok.

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Dec 15th, 2007, 16:03 PM	#28
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	I'm fine. Few aches and pains but everything else seems to be sorting itself out. Sure I'm going to be sick tonight though, just have a feeling. Me and OH have sorted things, again. I'm still mad about things hes said but I'm sure he isn't too happy about some of things I called him either. We just have to work through it for bump

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Dec 15th, 2007, 18:19 PM	#29
Always&4ever Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Stoke-on-Trent Posts: 9,507	Hun, your not over-reacting, its an awful thing for someone to say to you, hugs.. im here if you want to talk

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Dec 16th, 2007, 12:05 PM	#30
goldlion Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 1,316	Glad you've sorted things x

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