I give up again - Page 2

Linzi · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:21 AM

Dont bloody ring him, just dump him.

Your baby is more important.

Thats my opinion anyway. If Matt said that to me he'd be straight out the door!

xxx

CherryBlossom · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:29 AM

OMG!
dont bother hun i know its easier said than done but you got your baby now think of how all this could hurt her in when she is born.
i think i speak for everyone when i say we are here to talk to hunni dont worry x

CherryBlossom · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:31 AM

sorry for talking like its a girl x

Stef · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:32 AM

Toria, personall speaking, if they are his true colours i'd walk... the most imporant things that matter now is you and your LO future.

It will be hard... But if this is how he is, Its most certainly for the best and im sure that the support you need to do such thing would be right behind you from family & friends.

X

Serene123 · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:33 AM

It's nice to have someone talk about it like its a girl. Most people think it's a boy. As do I. Wish I wasn't so sure already. It's hard to finish with someone who was so different a couple of months ago. I've known him 4 years and hes never been like this. So he's just reacting right? And sometimes I don't control my hormones, I just let them rip. Which can't be helping him either. I don't want to do it on my own. I want what we talked about last week. To move away, get a house, be happy. I don't know what got to him yesterday but I just feel like he builds me up to break me down. I know I'm hormonal today anyway I cried because there was a spider on my wall and I didn't want to kill it

nikkybaby · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:47 AM

Honestly, hormonal or not, no one deserves to hear that, ESPECIALLY when you are hormonal. Remember, you are the one that is going through all these emotional changes, not him, and if he was mature enough to understand that, he wouldn't be saying those things. It's not good for either you or your LO. Trust me, me and my OH have gotten into a lot of arguments over nothing (obviously my fault), but he has never said anything even close to that, and that is because he knows. I really hope that things work for you, but if it continues like that, I would personally leave him.

Just make sure you take it easy for yourself and your LO.

Jules · Dec 13th, 2007, 08:49 AM

Poor you, he sounds so childish, and what mean things to say!

Do you want to be with him?

goldlion · Dec 13th, 2007, 09:02 AM

Leave him. Plain and simple.

honeybunch2k7 · Dec 13th, 2007, 09:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH

I don't know what he means anymore. At the beginning he really didn't want it.

If he didnt want a kid that bad he shoulda kept it in his pants...

Mango · Dec 13th, 2007, 09:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Linzi

Dont bloody ring him, just dump him.

Your baby is more important.

Thats my opinion anyway. If Matt said that to me he'd be straight out the door!

xxx

Agreed. two of you seem as though you need some serious time apart to deal with the reality of the pregnancy. You really can't be bickering like this with your lil one as it will stress all three of you out.

Dec 13th, 2007, 08:21 AM	#11
Linzi Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Leeds UK Posts: 15,769	Dont bloody ring him, just dump him. Your baby is more important. Thats my opinion anyway. If Matt said that to me he'd be straight out the door! xxx

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:29 AM	#12
CherryBlossom Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hertfordshire, UK Posts: 508	OMG! dont bother hun i know its easier said than done but you got your baby now think of how all this could hurt her in when she is born. i think i speak for everyone when i say we are here to talk to hunni dont worry x

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:31 AM	#13
CherryBlossom Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hertfordshire, UK Posts: 508	sorry for talking like its a girl x

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:32 AM	#14
Stef Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North East Posts: 6,725	Toria, personall speaking, if they are his true colours i'd walk... the most imporant things that matter now is you and your LO future. It will be hard... But if this is how he is, Its most certainly for the best and im sure that the support you need to do such thing would be right behind you from family & friends. X

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:33 AM	#15
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	It's nice to have someone talk about it like its a girl. Most people think it's a boy. As do I. Wish I wasn't so sure already. It's hard to finish with someone who was so different a couple of months ago. I've known him 4 years and hes never been like this. So he's just reacting right? And sometimes I don't control my hormones, I just let them rip. Which can't be helping him either. I don't want to do it on my own. I want what we talked about last week. To move away, get a house, be happy. I don't know what got to him yesterday but I just feel like he builds me up to break me down. I know I'm hormonal today anyway I cried because there was a spider on my wall and I didn't want to kill it

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:47 AM	#16
nikkybaby Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 981	Honestly, hormonal or not, no one deserves to hear that, ESPECIALLY when you are hormonal. Remember, you are the one that is going through all these emotional changes, not him, and if he was mature enough to understand that, he wouldn't be saying those things. It's not good for either you or your LO. Trust me, me and my OH have gotten into a lot of arguments over nothing (obviously my fault), but he has never said anything even close to that, and that is because he knows. I really hope that things work for you, but if it continues like that, I would personally leave him. Just make sure you take it easy for yourself and your LO.

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Dec 13th, 2007, 08:49 AM	#17
Jules Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 1,812	Poor you, he sounds so childish, and what mean things to say! Do you want to be with him?

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Dec 13th, 2007, 09:02 AM	#18
goldlion Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 1,316	Leave him. Plain and simple.

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