Layla

hun you know i can relate to this from our convo in the 3rd tri..

I agree with Amanda, if your friend is a good friend she will understand, and the B&B idea for you mum is a good one, Jases parents are staying at teh local hotel so thats a bit of a weight off my mind.

Be strong hun, if you dont want people there then say, its your house, your baby, your way, dont forget that and let poeple bully you

x

Stef

Thanks Layla... It was after our conversation that I realised it was all happening at once and got hysterical. Lol

Mantha3

You know what BabyBean.. this time in your life is about YOU and your family. You will never get back that first week of the baby's life. You need to stand up for yourself even if it hurts peoples feelings... they will get over it- I promis. And if they give you a hard time they are just being insensitive.. everyone knows that over due woman are not the happiest and that people want some time alone when the baby comes. Put yourself first.. explain sensitively to your friends and family.. be strong and don't let them manipulate you. You will be thankful you did it in the long run I am sure. Good luck hun!