well as you can see from my ticker im 5 weeks pregnant and today we are visiting hubbys parents and im worried the secret will come out.
his mum has text me a few times recently saying
'is there anything to tell me'
she knows that i want a baby and she is trying so hard to find out if i am.
when she has text me i have sent a message back saying 'no havnt got anything to tell you'
but today we are going to visit them and im worried his mum will ask me if im pregnant and i dont think ill be able to keep a straight face and say no.
our plan was to tell them christmas day.
HELP!!!!
oh and at dinner they usually have wine and im worried that when i say no thank you she will then know that i must be pregnant. as i never say no to a glass of wine. and when we go to visit them they get cheese and crackers coz i love cheese but again if i dont have the brie will she know.
sorry if this thread is stupid.
thanks for reading
she may know from ur body language if she knows u really well and ur not good at hiding things u could always accept the wine then just make some excuse as to y u didnt drink it like ur too full or something or tip it away when she not looking lol
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my MIL knew straight away without me even saying anything! You could wait till xmas but i don't think i could hide it for that long especially when you feel they know already!
its difficult if you want to keep things to yourself
i am still not telling anyone i just figure they will see for themselves one day and i find that just smiling or not giving a straight answer suffices.
if someone is very persistent and asks you outright you could try saying when im ready to share any news i will let everyone know but that time is not right now. at the end of the day i just figure those who guess guess and thats just the way it is.
well we are still here just for a few more days. its going well but hubby keeps talking about it i have to keep telling him to watch what he is saying. i think its now sinking in for hubby that im pregnant, he keeps talking about it and rubbing my belly and the other morning he kissed my belly.
oh and when i feel sick he waits on me hand and foot.
thanks for asking. x x