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Old May 19th, 2009, 11:50 AM   #101
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Im still undecided.


 
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Old May 19th, 2009, 11:57 AM   #102
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Im still undecided.
DO you mind me asking why hun? ...sorry dont want to be nosey just though it may help to type it all out and see it written down xxx


 
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Old May 19th, 2009, 11:58 AM   #103
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I am soooooooooooooooooooooooo excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I can have my homebirth!



Thanks for all your advice
thats fantastic news, Im glad it went the way it did, really pleased for you xx


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Old May 19th, 2009, 14:18 PM   #104
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Its just so nice to meet someone who isn't put off by the fact I'm 14 stone and pregnant!!

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Is that all you weight? thats nothing compared to me!


 
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Old May 19th, 2009, 14:35 PM   #105
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Its just so nice to meet someone who isn't put off by the fact I'm 14 stone and pregnant!!

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I weigh more than that hun and i've not had any probs so far telling my MW i'm having a home birth. nor has anyone said i'm high risk or anything.


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Old May 19th, 2009, 15:18 PM   #106
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I'm really interested in having a homebirth. It is still early for me, 7 weeks!! But the thought of a hospital birth fills me with... dread? ....maybe fear is too strong... stress, anyway. I have had three hospital births (14, 11 and 9 years ago) and none of them were great.

I am a bit overweight, 12 and a half stone, and my blood pressure is around the 170/90 mark. (I haven't had it taken in this pregnancy yet) The practise nurse just told me to lose a stone and do some yoga! So I'm not on medication for my BP. I wonder if this might put me at a disadvantage re homebirth?

Also, at what stage do you have to say "I want a homebirth!"? With my other pregnancies, I attended the midwife clinic at the GPs and the crazy busy midwife clinic at the hospital! Do homebirthers do that too? Would I see the usual midwives that I would see if I was going for a hospital birth? Or is it all different? Sorry for all the silly questions! I'd just like to know what I'm up against. I've always assumed asking for a homebirth was like asking for the moon, what with the staffing problems!

I find this thread fascinating and will keep referring to it as the weeks go on *fingers crossed*.

Thanks girls, and good luck all of you!



 
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Old May 19th, 2009, 16:22 PM   #107
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I'm really interested in having a home birth. It is still early for me, 7 weeks!! But the thought of a hospital birth fills me with... dread? ....maybe fear is too strong... stress, anyway. I have had three hospital births (14, 11 and 9 years ago) and none of them were great.

I am a bit overweight, 12 and a half stone, and my blood pressure is around the 170/90 mark. (I haven't had it taken in this pregnancy yet) The practise nurse just told me to lose a stone and do some yoga! So I'm not on medication for my BP. I wonder if this might put me at a disadvantage re home birth?

Also, at what stage do you have to say "I want a home birth!"? With my other pregnancies, I attended the midwife clinic at the GPs and the crazy busy midwife clinic at the hospital! Do homebirthers do that too? Would I see the usual midwives that I would see if I was going for a hospital birth? Or is it all different? Sorry for all the silly questions! I'd just like to know what I'm up against. I've always assumed asking for a homebirth was like asking for the moon, what with the staffing problems!

I find this thread fascinating and will keep referring to it as the weeks go on *fingers crossed*.

Thanks girls, and good luck all of you!


Hi hun,
I cant help re the blood pressure because ive know idea ... at 12 and a half stone you surly wouldn't be classed as over weight tho.

Where i live home birth are encouraged .. the MW suggests them so it may not be like asking for the moon.

Ive never seen hospital MW's anyway, im not sure why but even with my hospital births ive only ever seen MW's attached to my doctors surgery ....

but with me the whole process from booking in appointment through to going into labour has been the same with both hospital births and the last and this home birth. .. the only difference has been when i go in to labour i phone them to come to me rather than get in a car to go to them.

I told my MW at my booking in appointment that i was wanting to plan towards a home birth depending on how the pregnancy went but we didn't really confirm it and alert the other MW's to my wishes until i got to 32 weeks,

If i was you hun id mention the subject to your MW just to get some answers to your questions and see what kind of a reaction you get ... good luck xxxx


 
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Old May 19th, 2009, 17:57 PM   #108
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I had a home birth with my daughter and i would highly recommend.
It was the best experience ever. I gave birth to Niamh on our bed and within 1/2 hour or so we were both tucked up in bed together with our midwives cleaning up and making tea!
There was hardly any mess and the midwife took everything away. I wasn't rushed once, i could do what i wanted to. My midwife stayed for 3 hours after and she stayed in the kitchen doing paper work and only came to check on us a few times. She also called to check on us on her way home. So i had lots of support afterwards.

I had a box full of towels, candles, music etc and forgot all about using them! As the birth was only 5 hours from the first twinge.

If you want to ask me anything, i'd be more than willing to help.


 
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Old May 19th, 2009, 18:05 PM   #109
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That's amazing Bex, thanks for sharing. Everyday I'm more convinced that a homebirth is for me!


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Old May 19th, 2009, 18:45 PM   #110
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Thanks Cariad_bach and Bex. I'll probably have loads more questions as the weeks and months go on! Bex, your daughter's birth sounds wonderful!

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