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Nov 12th, 2007, 21:17 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Grr.
I told one of my friends, who lost a baby last year, about my bleeding over the weekend, and she came out with this:
"You're probably losing it. If you do then that's just life."
Wasn't expecting that!  |
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Nov 12th, 2007, 22:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Friends can be nasty! Infact nice 'friend'!!
Should know better having been there herself.
I'd tell her to shut up < I edited what I would really tell her! |
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Nov 12th, 2007, 22:51 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | disregard your friend.
this girl, who isn't really a friend, had a really inappropriate reaction to when I told her I was pregnant.
She asked how long after the pill I got pregnant, and I said 3 weeks.
Her response to that:
Oh my sister's friend got pregnant right after coming off the pill and her baby ended up being deformed and she miscarried.
now that is a SHITTY first thing to say to someone. |
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Nov 12th, 2007, 22:58 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | You know some nice people girls. |
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Nov 12th, 2007, 23:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Id forget what they say, they are just jealous anyway! HA! |
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Nov 12th, 2007, 23:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Comments like that serve no purpose what so ever!! I never understand people like that, honestly what is the point of them opening their mouths.
Honey make that the first and last time you say anything of importance to her. She obviously doesn't know how to support you. Hopefully there are others you can talk to (hugs) |
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Nov 13th, 2007, 01:03 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thanks Guysss! Yeah, most people are saying she's probably jealous. Which makes me feel bad and like I shouldn't have spoke to her about it, but she did ask. I'll just not tell her next time |
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Nov 13th, 2007, 01:32 AM
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| She sounds ignorant, what a harsh comment. Just ignore her, and I agree.. don't keep someone like that as your friend. Is she usually like that? If not, she probably said it because thats how she has come to terms with it in her mind and is trying to lessen the blow for you if the same happened (just trying to think about it from both sides).. still a very heartless comment though, you'd think that she would understand how worried you would be.
By the way, a lot of women have bled loads and had completely healthy, beautiful babies. I bled in my pregnancy and Bethanie is now almost 11 months.  |
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Nov 13th, 2007, 01:37 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I do feel like its O.K. deep down. I just don't want to be too positive and then lose him/her ! I'm so attatched now. I really just want everything to be O.K! |
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Nov 13th, 2007, 01:38 AM
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| Im sure everything will be fine.  don't worry. |
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