So i'm curious about why most of you are pregnant. Was it because you were trying or was it "accidental"??
For me I got pregnant because I was late on my BC pills. Me and my OH got frisky the day after my period stopped. As alot of you know you arn't on the pill for the week that you're on your period. Silly me i was late taking my pills about 3 days after. So that was 10 days of no pills. I guess that was enough for my body to ovulate.. That or his little swimmer swam all the way to the ovary to meet up with the egg. But I was on the pill as well for a over a year. I thought it would be alright after all that time!!! So here I am Meant to be I suppose! And im glad
I Already have 2 older children from my first marriage ages 9 and 7.
I then met Jase, got married and had Coby who is now 20 months old, so im pregnant again for Jase to have 2 children (even tho he treats my two as his own) and to give Coby a play mate, there is such a big gap between him and Ethan (7 year old)
Do you have any other children or is this your first?
Two years ago DH and I decided the time was as right as it would ever be to start a family so we TTC'd and had a little girl who is now 19 months old. Then when she was about a year old we decided we'd like a small age gap so started TTCing again and I'm now due in December.
In July it just hit me that after 32 years of waiting, it was time. We started TTC at the end of Aug, since my husband was away the month before, and bam! 2 weeks later I had a BFP!
I dont really know why I am. I mean we were trying to conceive, and eventually I did. It was just a mutual feeling that we would like to start our own family, so after working out finances etc thats what we did. We feel like its the best decision ever made and now were both excited & looking forward to the big day our little girl arrives.
We weren't trying, it came as a complete surprise. So, meant to be, I guess. We've had to scramble around a bit with insurance and medicaid and stuff like that, but it'll work out. We're both students so not exactly the best time, but I'm flying my mum out here in a month, and she'll be staying a while, so that'll be a big help.
I always had a feeling I had problems conceiving but it never really bothered me or looked into it (nearly did once) started my relationship with Stu and sorta told him this - we were not trying but had a conversation regarding the after pill and then decided what would be would .... couple of months down the line we had an ectopic and actively tried from there - heartache of a journey but happy & scared lol
Mine was accidental. I was on BC for four years and despite that I guess a lil slip up was all that was needed. My OH and I were very shocked and scared at first but we've been together for almost 5 yrs so I guess it may have been inevitable at some point. Definitely looking forward to meeting our lil pumpkin now though.
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