The - I'm so scared i cant be excited yet -Thread

Im too scared to be excited yet!

i was all like a cheshire cat when i got those lines this am and now im a bag of nerves!

its soooo early days, i want to with the fear - hubby texted all his m8s and family this am .... and i was like nooooo not yet! but then cos he told his family - of course mine needed to know (to prevent family problems) ive told a few close buddies and of course u lot , but im still sooooo scared

Hiya Missy,

I hear you!! It's a really odd time. I swing from being cool as a cucumber to thinking awful negative thoughts. It's such a frikkin rollercoaster!!! I found out 11 days ago and am happily taking each day at a time and thankful for every day we progress.

As we all know, there's nothing we can do to prevent MCs so i'm ploughing myself into being a good 'home' for my spud and am on a mission to get a minimum of 5 F&V a day and lots of water to keep me hydrated and regular swimming to keep me fit(ish) and help with the stress. We can do no more.......

Take it easy, hun we're all here for each other.

(Can't believe i only just found this section, been not feeling at home in first tri and missing TTCAL, hooray for PAL section!!! )

Hi, i can really relate to that. I am 5 weeks. Had a MMC in December 2009 and i am so scared. I am really trying to relax as know this worrying is really not good for me!

Huni its normal to worry!... I could have sworn blind my babys heart had stopped during the 6 weeks bewtween my 10 week n 16/17 week scan!! but no...there it was!!!!!! its completely normal to panic. But try to not think about bad stuff happening and just relax...when u are happy the baby is happy!!!! eat rite....sleep ALOT!!!! and u will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! when u have ur first scan all those fears u have just now will fade when u hear that heartbeat!! xx

im not going to lie to you Missy its hard, you know by following Drazic and myself how worried we were but I promise you that after the 12 week scan you will relax a bit, try and get that early scan if the NHS won't do it go private it will give you piece of mind that the baby will be in the right place and is ok. Take each day as it comes xxx

this is todays

and its comparison with yest

definitely darker! Yah!!!
I am terrified of another Ectopic or MC. I know there is nothin I can do but keep myself stress free, rest and relax but the fear is always there. I am only 4w and 4d and MC around this stage in Jan 10.

we'll get there babes xxxx

I know- nice to know we are not alone on this journey. I know other people around me like friends and family have no bloody idea what is going on in our heads

family say stupid stuff like - remember to relax this time - i was relaxed last time too!!