Update bean did not stick :( - Page 2

JadeyB · Jan 6th, 2010, 15:54 PM

Hey honey,

If you are bleeding then I would be as pushy as you need to be. When I found out I was pregnant I'd had what I thought were 2 periods (they were light apart from one very heavy bleed after sex). At that time it wasn't too worried as I didn't know I was pregnant. I did the test while still bleeding (lightly) because I was really off my vegetables and felt quite nauseous. I had to wait for about 2 hours in the ob/gynae's office but I got an early scan which confirmed I was 6 weeks and thankfully everything was fine.

I had a couple of small bleeds after that, but now it has eased off and I haven't had any since about 8/9 weeks.

I hope that everything works out well for you.

Big hugs
xx

mizzk · Jan 8th, 2010, 07:39 AM

im tiping on my mobile so bear with me if any mistakes! I took another test thurz morn, was negative. Took another clearblue 1 and it says not pregnant. I went to docs and she was really understanding. Says i will hav lost my pregnancy and that she didnt want to send me to the pregnancy scan unit as it wud giv me false hope. She asked me how i felt about it, i told her that obviously ther was no hope and she says the home tests are pretty accurate. I have just gota pas naturally and she has booked me an ultrasound scan for 2-3 weeks time to check that nothing has been left over. I went to work this morning at half 7 and it took me over 2 hours 2 get there, by that time i was feeling so crappy that they let me go home and says they wudnt penalise me for being absent at a time like this. Anyway ive stuk me jarmies on and am just resting. Feel quite upset and poopy. Thanku 4 everybodies help and kind words xx

littleblonde · Jan 8th, 2010, 08:43 AM

Im sorry to hear that hun. Make sure if the bleeding or pain gets unbarable to get yourself off to hospital. Also keep that scan in 2-3 weeks time as its important to make sure things pass. Feel upset for as long as you need to.

Smiler13 · Jan 8th, 2010, 11:06 AM

Sorry for your loss mizzk, hope you are able to put your feet up this weekend.

Drazic<3 · Jan 8th, 2010, 11:11 AM

I am so sorry for your loss sweetheart. Sending loads of love your way. Take it easy and give yourself time and I hope the medical side is over soon so you can have peace to grieve. The girls in the MC forum are amazing if you need support or to ask a question. With love

Widger · Jan 8th, 2010, 12:24 PM

Really sorry Mizzk

xx

scaredmum2be · Jan 8th, 2010, 12:31 PM

Really sorry to hear of your loss if you need anyone to talk to were all here for you

JASMAK · Jan 8th, 2010, 22:14 PM

I really sorry for your loss.

cleckner04 · Jan 9th, 2010, 00:08 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss hun.

debgreasby · Jan 9th, 2010, 09:28 AM

So sorry

Jan 6th, 2010, 15:54 PM	#11
JadeyB Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 1,412	Hey honey, If you are bleeding then I would be as pushy as you need to be. When I found out I was pregnant I'd had what I thought were 2 periods (they were light apart from one very heavy bleed after sex). At that time it wasn't too worried as I didn't know I was pregnant. I did the test while still bleeding (lightly) because I was really off my vegetables and felt quite nauseous. I had to wait for about 2 hours in the ob/gynae's office but I got an early scan which confirmed I was 6 weeks and thankfully everything was fine. I had a couple of small bleeds after that, but now it has eased off and I haven't had any since about 8/9 weeks. I hope that everything works out well for you. Big hugs xx

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Jan 8th, 2010, 07:39 AM	#12
mizzk Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: England Posts: 1,461	im tiping on my mobile so bear with me if any mistakes! I took another test thurz morn, was negative. Took another clearblue 1 and it says not pregnant. I went to docs and she was really understanding. Says i will hav lost my pregnancy and that she didnt want to send me to the pregnancy scan unit as it wud giv me false hope. She asked me how i felt about it, i told her that obviously ther was no hope and she says the home tests are pretty accurate. I have just gota pas naturally and she has booked me an ultrasound scan for 2-3 weeks time to check that nothing has been left over. I went to work this morning at half 7 and it took me over 2 hours 2 get there, by that time i was feeling so crappy that they let me go home and says they wudnt penalise me for being absent at a time like this. Anyway ive stuk me jarmies on and am just resting. Feel quite upset and poopy. Thanku 4 everybodies help and kind words xx

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Jan 8th, 2010, 08:43 AM	#13
littleblonde Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shropshire Posts: 6,987	Im sorry to hear that hun. Make sure if the bleeding or pain gets unbarable to get yourself off to hospital. Also keep that scan in 2-3 weeks time as its important to make sure things pass. Feel upset for as long as you need to.

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Jan 8th, 2010, 11:06 AM	#14
Smiler13 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Surrey Posts: 496	Sorry for your loss mizzk, hope you are able to put your feet up this weekend.

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Jan 8th, 2010, 11:11 AM	#15
Drazic<3 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Norfolk, England. Posts: 9,295	I am so sorry for your loss sweetheart. Sending loads of love your way. Take it easy and give yourself time and I hope the medical side is over soon so you can have peace to grieve. The girls in the MC forum are amazing if you need support or to ask a question. With love

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Jan 8th, 2010, 12:24 PM	#16
Widger Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: England Posts: 3,476	Really sorry Mizzk xx

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Jan 8th, 2010, 12:31 PM	#17
scaredmum2be Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 692	Really sorry to hear of your loss if you need anyone to talk to were all here for you

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Jan 8th, 2010, 22:14 PM	#18
JASMAK Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: CANADA!!! Posts: 10,951	I really sorry for your loss.

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Jan 9th, 2010, 00:08 AM	#19
cleckner04 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 21,311	I'm so sorry for your loss hun.

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Jan 9th, 2010, 09:28 AM	#20
debgreasby Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Sutton in Ashfield, Notts Posts: 5,561	So sorry

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