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aurora32 · Jan 2nd, 2009, 09:50 AM

Hey Sophie,

How did last night go with LO any better?

bambikate · Jan 2nd, 2009, 11:49 AM

sending you

x x

Sophie1205 · Jan 2nd, 2009, 14:25 PM

Thank you so much for everyones advice. Im taking it all in.
He slept a little better last night actually. I took him in the bath with me at 11.30pm then fed and changed him and he only settled at 2am which is a bit better for him. Then he woke again at 5, fed and changed him. Then he slept till 9.
It was a bit better than normal but its just that hes not settling till about 2am and Id really like him to be asleep a bit earlier.

I tried to get some cartons of the hungrier baby milk today but couldnt find them. Where are they sold?

I have another problem now too.. we live with OH's Mum and she keeps taking him off me!! Its driving me mad. Like the other day I was holding him and he started to cough so I sat him up and he threw up on me and she took him out of my arms and started to rub his back!!! Like i cant do it myself. And now shes just took him off me again. So Im just sat up here without my baby.

I went through the pain of labour to have my baby taken off me all the time.

xx

aurora32 · Jan 2nd, 2009, 17:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Sophie1205

Thank you so much for everyones advice. Im taking it all in.
He slept a little better last night actually. I took him in the bath with me at 11.30pm then fed and changed him and he only settled at 2am which is a bit better for him. Then he woke again at 5, fed and changed him. Then he slept till 9.
It was a bit better than normal but its just that hes not settling till about 2am and Id really like him to be asleep a bit earlier.

I tried to get some cartons of the hungrier baby milk today but couldnt find them. Where are they sold?

I have another problem now too.. we live with OH's Mum and she keeps taking him off me!! Its driving me mad. Like the other day I was holding him and he started to cough so I sat him up and he threw up on me and she took him out of my arms and started to rub his back!!! Like i cant do it myself. And now shes just took him off me again. So Im just sat up here without my baby.

I went through the pain of labour to have my baby taken off me all the time.

xx

The Blue sma cartons you should be able to get from any tesco or asda or any big superstore with all the other tins of baby milk hun, failing that get a tin like the gold one you have and make it up like you are doing with the gold, as for oh's mum you need to politely tell her that its your baby and you need to learn and thats not going to happen if she keeps taking baby off you, hunni dont be walked over like you say you went through labour and its your baby, are you still thinking off moving in somewhere yourself?....

XKatX · Jan 3rd, 2009, 06:59 AM

Just tell your mum that you can handle it. When she goes to take him off you, be firm and say you would rather handle it yourself. She'll soon realise that you can manage it and don't need her to interfere.nIt'll be hard, but she needs to learn.

Sophie1205 · Jan 4th, 2009, 10:54 AM

Yeah unfortunately its gonna have to be the council route for me for now. Only untill i can get through Uni then when I earn enough to get a privately rented house I will. But I have to move out one way or another.

I got Leo those Blue cartons last night and I had the worst night with him ever. I bathed him then gave him his bottle (the hungrier baby milk) and he screamed from 9pm till 6am and fed every 3 hours! I had such an awful night last night. Nothing I did settled him.

xx

aurora32 · Jan 4th, 2009, 11:12 AM

can take 24 hours to get into his system to have an affect, plus the change of strength and fact its casein may have made him a bit windy hunn.....

Sophie1205 · Jan 4th, 2009, 11:24 AM

Yeah, well ill see how he gets on tonight then. Is it ok that Im giving him SMA gold in the day time and SMA white at night??

xx

6lilpigs · Jan 4th, 2009, 11:34 AM

I'm afraid I can't offer any help to your last question but just wanted to check that you were OK. Council route sounds like best plan definately. If you can get your MIL to write a letter saying that she wants you out in x weeks then they will have to register you as homeless from that date so speeding things up for you, good luck with tonight.

Just a thought, is it maybe worth asking MIL if she could let you go to bed at 9pm and she bring the little fella in to you later on in the evening just to try and grab a bit of recharge for yourself? I know its a bit like going against what you really want but just think of it as a one off emergenct measure.

aurora32 · Jan 4th, 2009, 15:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Sophie1205

Yeah, well ill see how he gets on tonight then. Is it ok that Im giving him SMA gold in the day time and SMA white at night??

xx

Id stick to one or the other hunn as you will confuse his little system try the blue for a few days let him and his system get used to it as the blue as i said before is casien based and stays in the tummy longer takes longer to break down making them feel fuller for longer, i dont want to sound patronising but make sure you wind him well and go from there, hope this helps hunn.....

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aurora32 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mey, Caithness Posts: 2,610	Hey Sophie, How did last night go with LO any better?

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Jan 2nd, 2009, 11:49 AM	#32
bambikate Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 4,271	sending you x x

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Jan 2nd, 2009, 14:25 PM	#33
Sophie1205 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Merseyside, UK Posts: 5,884	Thank you so much for everyones advice. Im taking it all in. He slept a little better last night actually. I took him in the bath with me at 11.30pm then fed and changed him and he only settled at 2am which is a bit better for him. Then he woke again at 5, fed and changed him. Then he slept till 9. It was a bit better than normal but its just that hes not settling till about 2am and Id really like him to be asleep a bit earlier. I tried to get some cartons of the hungrier baby milk today but couldnt find them. Where are they sold? I have another problem now too.. we live with OH's Mum and she keeps taking him off me!! Its driving me mad. Like the other day I was holding him and he started to cough so I sat him up and he threw up on me and she took him out of my arms and started to rub his back!!! Like i cant do it myself. And now shes just took him off me again. So Im just sat up here without my baby. I went through the pain of labour to have my baby taken off me all the time. xx

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Jan 3rd, 2009, 06:59 AM	#35
XKatX Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 5,897	Just tell your mum that you can handle it. When she goes to take him off you, be firm and say you would rather handle it yourself. She'll soon realise that you can manage it and don't need her to interfere.nIt'll be hard, but she needs to learn.

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Jan 4th, 2009, 10:54 AM	#36
Sophie1205 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Merseyside, UK Posts: 5,884	Yeah unfortunately its gonna have to be the council route for me for now. Only untill i can get through Uni then when I earn enough to get a privately rented house I will. But I have to move out one way or another. I got Leo those Blue cartons last night and I had the worst night with him ever. I bathed him then gave him his bottle (the hungrier baby milk) and he screamed from 9pm till 6am and fed every 3 hours! I had such an awful night last night. Nothing I did settled him. xx

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aurora32 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mey, Caithness Posts: 2,610	can take 24 hours to get into his system to have an affect, plus the change of strength and fact its casein may have made him a bit windy hunn.....

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Jan 4th, 2009, 11:24 AM	#38
Sophie1205 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Merseyside, UK Posts: 5,884	Yeah, well ill see how he gets on tonight then. Is it ok that Im giving him SMA gold in the day time and SMA white at night?? xx

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Jan 4th, 2009, 11:34 AM	#39
6lilpigs Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,477	I'm afraid I can't offer any help to your last question but just wanted to check that you were OK. Council route sounds like best plan definately. If you can get your MIL to write a letter saying that she wants you out in x weeks then they will have to register you as homeless from that date so speeding things up for you, good luck with tonight. Just a thought, is it maybe worth asking MIL if she could let you go to bed at 9pm and she bring the little fella in to you later on in the evening just to try and grab a bit of recharge for yourself? I know its a bit like going against what you really want but just think of it as a one off emergenct measure.

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