Sex (possibly TMI)

Elski · Feb 7th, 2010, 13:18 PM

Alright girls - well I had quite a difficult birth (episiotomy, forceps, stitches coming open) so it took a few weeks before I dared let OH down there again! We've had sex a few times and it just feels different, and a bit wrong inside. It's uncomfortable if he goes too deep and it just doesn't feel the same as it did before, even the big O feels different (not in a bad way, just different). It doesn't just glide in easily like before, it's all awkward and we have to shuffle around a bit so he can get it in

I'm worried it'll always be uncomfortable and not quite right

maybe it's still too soon (8wks)? Anyone else had similar?

Cheers! x

Archies Mummy · Feb 7th, 2010, 13:23 PM

Wow 8 weeks, i made my o/h wait nearly 3 months and just like you it was awkward and felt really weird, lol. But the more we did it it became comfortable and familiar again, ps i had stitches too.

Elski · Feb 7th, 2010, 13:28 PM

Oooh, I've just noticed something, have PM'd you!

Archies Mummy · Feb 7th, 2010, 13:30 PM

Nope, dnt think you have hun

Archies Mummy · Feb 7th, 2010, 13:31 PM

sorry, ye u have lol

Feb 7th, 2010, 13:18 PM	#1
Elski Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: London Posts: 1,022	Sex (possibly TMI) Alright girls - well I had quite a difficult birth (episiotomy, forceps, stitches coming open) so it took a few weeks before I dared let OH down there again! We've had sex a few times and it just feels different, and a bit wrong inside. It's uncomfortable if he goes too deep and it just doesn't feel the same as it did before, even the big O feels different (not in a bad way, just different). It doesn't just glide in easily like before, it's all awkward and we have to shuffle around a bit so he can get it in I'm worried it'll always be uncomfortable and not quite right maybe it's still too soon (8wks)? Anyone else had similar? Cheers! x

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Feb 7th, 2010, 13:23 PM	#2
Archies Mummy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Croydon Posts: 387	Wow 8 weeks, i made my o/h wait nearly 3 months and just like you it was awkward and felt really weird, lol. But the more we did it it became comfortable and familiar again, ps i had stitches too.

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Feb 7th, 2010, 13:28 PM	#3
Elski Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: London Posts: 1,022	Oooh, I've just noticed something, have PM'd you!

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Feb 7th, 2010, 13:30 PM	#4
Archies Mummy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Croydon Posts: 387	Nope, dnt think you have hun

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Archies Mummy Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Croydon Posts: 387	sorry, ye u have lol

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