Bad Births - Page 2

babybaillie · Jan 24th, 2010, 14:29 PM

I can understand where u r coming from. Ive just had my 3rd baby and after 2 normal deliveries to have an emergency section this time is a big disapointment. Everything went to pot and not how i expected my last babies arrival to be. But for me it turned out to be for the best as my LO wouldnt have survived a normal delivery. That leaves me feeling very angry that the docs put her at risk.....

ellie · Jan 26th, 2010, 07:32 AM

I had a terrible time and havent been able to bring myself to write the story yet.
we havent decided yet about more children, but if so I definitely want to try for a vbac. I read that 60% is the 'standard' odds actually, so I'm not sure where the 90% came from!

Although we know that our healthy babies are the main thing, it doesnt mean that our feelings about how they arrived are invalid.

Jchihuahua · Jan 26th, 2010, 09:37 AM

I wrote about mine in the traumatic birth post. It was horrible and I hate even thinking about it. Obviously having Daisy in my arms was the best thing ever but the induction, labour and birth were horrific.

Jan 24th, 2010, 14:29 PM	#11
babybaillie Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 2,018	I can understand where u r coming from. Ive just had my 3rd baby and after 2 normal deliveries to have an emergency section this time is a big disapointment. Everything went to pot and not how i expected my last babies arrival to be. But for me it turned out to be for the best as my LO wouldnt have survived a normal delivery. That leaves me feeling very angry that the docs put her at risk.....

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Jan 26th, 2010, 07:32 AM	#12
ellie Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: south wales Posts: 3,818	I had a terrible time and havent been able to bring myself to write the story yet. we havent decided yet about more children, but if so I definitely want to try for a vbac. I read that 60% is the 'standard' odds actually, so I'm not sure where the 90% came from! Although we know that our healthy babies are the main thing, it doesnt mean that our feelings about how they arrived are invalid.

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Jan 26th, 2010, 09:37 AM	#13
Jchihuahua Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: W. Yorkshire Posts: 4,916	I wrote about mine in the traumatic birth post. It was horrible and I hate even thinking about it. Obviously having Daisy in my arms was the best thing ever but the induction, labour and birth were horrific.

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