Resuming Sexual Intercourse after birth - Page 2

jojo2605 · Jan 8th, 2010, 18:20 PM

Hmmm well I so them when I remember but that isn't every day if I'm honest!!!!

Jasmineivy · Jan 8th, 2010, 18:24 PM

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Originally Posted by sparkle_1979

haha your husbands little one....hes just gona love you if he reads this

that did make me laugh....

Dont know though hun, I havent done it yet!!! Wont get away with it for much longer though...

Oh dear, that was a freudian slip and a half! Poor sex deprived and insulted hubster, thank god he won't be reading! Just for the record though it's at least a medium one! x x tee hee x x

Mynx · Jan 8th, 2010, 19:03 PM

We tried to have sex a fortnight after Evie was born lol. Needless to say, it hurt like hell!! It was a really awful burning sensation. I was really lucky and had no tears or stitches but I had some grazing on the inside which is where the burning sensation was.
We left it another fortnight and tried again and it felt much better. OH was very gentle and we took it slow. 7 weeks on and all is well down there. He says it feels no different to how it was before but I still worry that things might be um, looser lol

elainegee · Jan 8th, 2010, 21:09 PM

i had a c section and presuming as i have felt no change to my downstairs at all! that having a c section doesn't effect your woman area lol. we had sex 4 weeks after he was born and even with a c section wasn't uncomfortable at all x

cleckner04 · Jan 8th, 2010, 21:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Jasmineivy

Quote:

Originally Posted by sparkle_1979

haha your husbands little one....hes just gona love you if he reads this

that did make me laugh....

Dont know though hun, I havent done it yet!!! Wont get away with it for much longer though...

Oh dear, that was a freudian slip and a half! Poor sex deprived and insulted hubster, thank god he won't be reading! Just for the record though it's at least a medium one! x x tee hee x x

This made me

I had a c-section as well and really can't help in that area. We waited a week and had sex. Nothing needed healed in that area though so it's quite different. I am crossing my legs just thinking of what you girls did. I can't even believe a baby actually fits out of there.

mrsadair · Jan 8th, 2010, 23:21 PM

we waited 12 days, as soon as i felt like my stitches were dissolved. it was a little uncomfortable but bearable... and actually felt better. hubby said it felt different but that it was okay.

Nickij · Jan 9th, 2010, 04:02 AM

For me its been 11 weeks and we have managed to have it once

It still just hurt too much! I had a 2nd degree tear inside so I guess its just going to take time to get back to normal.

becstar · Jan 9th, 2010, 04:08 AM

I didn't have many stiches and no perineal tearing, but I had a labial tear which was stitched, and tore inside too. That's where it still hurts now, it burns a bit and stings. I need to get checked really... the nurse who did my smear last month said it all looks norm al but if it still hurts I should get checked.

bana · Jan 9th, 2010, 04:12 AM

i had a bad 2nd degree tear and grazing (yes grazing, i have no idea how) and i felt down there and it felt like it had been pushed out, so weird so now i cant bring myself to have sex the whole thought scares me! its been over 3 months, im so guna ave to do it soon b4 my oh runs off! I think im totally healed apart from a slight pain i get sometimes! x

Jasmineivy · Jan 9th, 2010, 06:20 AM

Well I had a second degree tear with no stitches but i can't see how the perenium will join back together it feels like my vagina starts at my bum hole now, that is awful isn't it? Sorry! Does anyone know how long these tears take to heal or internally will it go back to normal or at least more small? I'm really embarrassed about it all!x x

Jan 8th, 2010, 18:20 PM	#11
jojo2605 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Brummyland Posts: 2,582	Hmmm well I so them when I remember but that isn't every day if I'm honest!!!!

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Jan 8th, 2010, 19:03 PM	#13
Mynx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: NW London, UK Posts: 8,298	We tried to have sex a fortnight after Evie was born lol. Needless to say, it hurt like hell!! It was a really awful burning sensation. I was really lucky and had no tears or stitches but I had some grazing on the inside which is where the burning sensation was. We left it another fortnight and tried again and it felt much better. OH was very gentle and we took it slow. 7 weeks on and all is well down there. He says it feels no different to how it was before but I still worry that things might be um, looser lol

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Jan 8th, 2010, 21:09 PM	#14
elainegee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: West of Scotland Posts: 1,861	i had a c section and presuming as i have felt no change to my downstairs at all! that having a c section doesn't effect your woman area lol. we had sex 4 weeks after he was born and even with a c section wasn't uncomfortable at all x

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mrsadair Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 580	we waited 12 days, as soon as i felt like my stitches were dissolved. it was a little uncomfortable but bearable... and actually felt better. hubby said it felt different but that it was okay.

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Jan 9th, 2010, 04:02 AM	#17
Nickij Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1,444	For me its been 11 weeks and we have managed to have it once It still just hurt too much! I had a 2nd degree tear inside so I guess its just going to take time to get back to normal.

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Jan 9th, 2010, 04:08 AM	#18
becstar Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: London Posts: 3,341	I didn't have many stiches and no perineal tearing, but I had a labial tear which was stitched, and tore inside too. That's where it still hurts now, it burns a bit and stings. I need to get checked really... the nurse who did my smear last month said it all looks norm al but if it still hurts I should get checked.

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Jan 9th, 2010, 04:12 AM	#19
bana Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 1,051	i had a bad 2nd degree tear and grazing (yes grazing, i have no idea how) and i felt down there and it felt like it had been pushed out, so weird so now i cant bring myself to have sex the whole thought scares me! its been over 3 months, im so guna ave to do it soon b4 my oh runs off! I think im totally healed apart from a slight pain i get sometimes! x

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Jan 9th, 2010, 06:20 AM	#20
Jasmineivy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 494	Well I had a second degree tear with no stitches but i can't see how the perenium will join back together it feels like my vagina starts at my bum hole now, that is awful isn't it? Sorry! Does anyone know how long these tears take to heal or internally will it go back to normal or at least more small? I'm really embarrassed about it all!x x

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