Myself and OH are always changing our minds. He keeps saying he wants another really soon and then deciding he doesn't want another for many more years! As for me, I'd like to leave it 5 or 6 years I think even though I'm going to miss being pregnant. Will have to wait and see I guess.
But we have to wait 1 year before we can start trying again after the c-section...
I feel sad about it... but I also feel good about waiting too as sometimes money is a stuggle with only MA and child benefit being the only money I have coming in at the moment and then over half goes on paying my loan, car insurance, and my phone bill. Then the other teeny weeny amount I have left I have to buy food, nappies, milk, diesel etc...
So perhaps it is better to wait get some more money under my belt and then have another... and I dont ant to miss out on Olivias first years
I had an emergency section with my son - it took us 2 years of trying to have him so we were REALLY shocked when I discovered 3 months later that i was pregnant again. my scar was fine and my doctor never said a word! i was expecting a right telling off. my scar coped fine - ached a bit towards the end but that was it.
I wanted three but hubby said u can't have three so i said four he said ok but we have to wait 5-10 years inbetween kacy and Kira before we try again, now i'm thinking maybe just leave it at two cos me and hubby will be able to go out more and go on proper holidays and stuff and be able to do stuff to the house.
But might change my mind but right at this moment Just the two is fine for me.
Oh yes, we would love to have another one right away. I am most definatly wanting one but it's just not practical for us. I have to wait until I finish uni and find a job, so we are looking at at least 2 1/2 years.
I so agree. Three months after my daughter was born (was it even three months LOL) we discussed having another. Trust me, my daughter's delivery was no picnic.
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...OH thinks I've gone crazy.
I so agree. Three months after my daughter was born (was it even three months LOL) we discussed having another. Trust me, my daughter's delivery was no picnic.
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