OH is driving me mad..

xTaylorsMummy · Nov 10th, 2009, 15:41 PM

about sex!!

It feels like this is all he talks/thinks about! its everyday every hour he talks about it!

i feel like a peice of meet, have only had it 2ce since Dex born. But my god hes making me not want it by how much he touches my boobs ect

Does anyone else OH do this!? sorry for tmi.

Kiree · Nov 10th, 2009, 17:42 PM

i just dont think men get it about the sex!!!

the way i see it- its not just the fact that youve given birth, which is enough to put you off itself anyway, but about how your relationship with your body changes. its like your body is a certain way for a number of years and then it changes practically overnight (well ok 9 months!) and that takes some getting used to. and then unfortunately when youve been up all night with a baby, sleep wins over sex every time!!

hubby has been really understanding once i talked to him. could you have a chat with your OH and explain how you feel, so that he knows you havent gone off him, just off sex!!

cleckner04 · Nov 11th, 2009, 00:09 AM

My DH has been the same way! And he just paws at my boobs as if it's going to turn me on. But I breastfeed and my boobs just don't feel sexual anymore.

On one hand it's wonderful that he still finds me sexy, but on the other hand I feel gross half of the time with the lack of time to pamper myself, a droopy belly, and usually spots of spit-up on my clothes..

Scally · Nov 11th, 2009, 03:10 AM

oh bless, my OH is so horny at the moment i call him the humping dog, i darent undress in front of him!!!

There is no chance yet, have only just finished bleeding, and the energy involved, i'd rather be sleeping!!!!

xTaylorsMummy · Nov 11th, 2009, 06:28 AM

lol thanks ladies its cheered me up!!
kiree- I have explained and he says "wheres my spontanous girlfriend gone" lol iv been up all night and want an early night lol
cleckner- LMAO my OH does that, grabs me boobs and goes "fancy a quickie?!" yeahh okkkayy thats such a turn on lol

scally- i wouldnt of done it yet but i was scared hed explode if i didnt lool!

littlekitten8 · Nov 11th, 2009, 06:34 AM

Lol my OH is like this too. He can't cuddle me without groping my boobs or down below. We used to have sex alot so I do feel kinda sorry for him but its just plain annoying! It doesn't turn me on at all lol.

Nov 10th, 2009, 15:41 PM	#1
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	OH is driving me mad.. about sex!! It feels like this is all he talks/thinks about! its everyday every hour he talks about it! i feel like a peice of meet, have only had it 2ce since Dex born. But my god hes making me not want it by how much he touches my boobs ect Does anyone else OH do this!? sorry for tmi.

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Nov 10th, 2009, 17:42 PM	#2
Kiree Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: North East England Posts: 1,080	i just dont think men get it about the sex!!! the way i see it- its not just the fact that youve given birth, which is enough to put you off itself anyway, but about how your relationship with your body changes. its like your body is a certain way for a number of years and then it changes practically overnight (well ok 9 months!) and that takes some getting used to. and then unfortunately when youve been up all night with a baby, sleep wins over sex every time!! hubby has been really understanding once i talked to him. could you have a chat with your OH and explain how you feel, so that he knows you havent gone off him, just off sex!!

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Nov 11th, 2009, 00:09 AM	#3
cleckner04 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 21,311	My DH has been the same way! And he just paws at my boobs as if it's going to turn me on. But I breastfeed and my boobs just don't feel sexual anymore. On one hand it's wonderful that he still finds me sexy, but on the other hand I feel gross half of the time with the lack of time to pamper myself, a droopy belly, and usually spots of spit-up on my clothes..

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Nov 11th, 2009, 03:10 AM	#4
Scally Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Essex Posts: 4,089	oh bless, my OH is so horny at the moment i call him the humping dog, i darent undress in front of him!!! There is no chance yet, have only just finished bleeding, and the energy involved, i'd rather be sleeping!!!!

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Nov 11th, 2009, 06:28 AM	#5
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	lol thanks ladies its cheered me up!! kiree- I have explained and he says "wheres my spontanous girlfriend gone" lol iv been up all night and want an early night lol cleckner- LMAO my OH does that, grabs me boobs and goes "fancy a quickie?!" yeahh okkkayy thats such a turn on lol scally- i wouldnt of done it yet but i was scared hed explode if i didnt lool!

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Nov 11th, 2009, 06:34 AM	#6
littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Lol my OH is like this too. He can't cuddle me without groping my boobs or down below. We used to have sex alot so I do feel kinda sorry for him but its just plain annoying! It doesn't turn me on at all lol.

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