ok now im worried! help please tmi!

xTaylorsMummy · Oct 20th, 2009, 18:01 PM

oh my god...

This is tmi sorry!

Iv just been in the shower, i dont have a bath so to keep it clean down there [ i had a 2nd degree tear without stitches] i use the shower head

but crouch down iykwim. Anyway it was fine for about a week and half, but past couple of days its been so sore when i do it.. but it looks healed in the mirror [i think?!!]. it stung like soo much

Anyway, i had a feel for the first time, and theres loads of lumps and bumps inside

, and now im panicking sooo much! OH wont look hes being a complete knob tbh, he looked after i had my daughter and i had a epsiotomy then!! he wont look just to put my mind at rest and its really getting to me.

i asked him to look a min ago and he said "im not looking at ur big gapping hole"!! im so upset, i mean he watched our two kids come into the world!!

anyway im quite sore down there.. it has only been 19days like, but im so worried. Shall i go docs on friday to get checked? or is it normally like that

sorry lol

Komatsu · Oct 20th, 2009, 21:03 PM

Can't help you hon , but if it's really sore and you're worried I'd see the doctor .
I would have flipped if my husband had said that to me .

Serene123 · Oct 20th, 2009, 21:06 PM

I had lumps and bumps for ages. I do think it's best to get checked out though hun, even for piece of mind. Doctors come across these things every day so there's no need to be worried about asking them what's normal and what's not. If they feel they need to check you out, then atleast you know you did the right thing x

lulu0504 · Oct 21st, 2009, 04:07 AM

My OH refused to look 'down there' for a while after my episiotomy. He said it would look "like a butchers window display"

I'd definitely get checked out though, just in case. As toria said, they see that kind of thing on a daily basis.

rach321 · Oct 21st, 2009, 04:20 AM

I'd get it checked just to put your mind at rest and if there's anything wrong then it can be sorted out sooner rather than leaving it.

xTaylorsMummy · Oct 21st, 2009, 05:25 AM

thanks. im going docs on friday so scared lol.. its so sore, like when i have a wee around that area lol the only way i can discribe it is it feels like iv ripped it or something, but i havent. I had a cathater in labour and it seeems to stem since iv had that =/ hmm

bumpsmum · Oct 21st, 2009, 13:44 PM

I had a section but I have heard a few girls mention to pour water/spray water on your sorebits (sorry

) as this dilutes the urine taking the sting out. Alternatively if you have time (which with a 19 day old cutie im sure its limited) wee in the shower with the shower head down there xx

xTaylorsMummy · Oct 21st, 2009, 14:04 PM

but surely it shouldnt be this sore 3weeks after lol? i spoke to HV and she said its probs just swallon and bruised. lol =[

Novbaby08 · Oct 22nd, 2009, 02:24 AM

I didn't have bumps....that I know of...but I wanted to say
you are brave for looking, I also was stitched up there, and I got goosebumps just thinking about looking, I wouldn't even touch the area with my bare hands.

rachiem · Oct 22nd, 2009, 02:44 AM

I had bumps "in there" too, spoke to my doc cause i was worried and he said it was scar tissue.
I also had an episiotomy, forceps delivery. I did not start to feel back to normal down there till about 8 weeks post natal.
Give it time it will get better.
xx

Oct 20th, 2009, 18:01 PM	#1
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	ok now im worried! help please tmi! oh my god... This is tmi sorry! Iv just been in the shower, i dont have a bath so to keep it clean down there [ i had a 2nd degree tear without stitches] i use the shower head but crouch down iykwim. Anyway it was fine for about a week and half, but past couple of days its been so sore when i do it.. but it looks healed in the mirror [i think?!!]. it stung like soo much Anyway, i had a feel for the first time, and theres loads of lumps and bumps inside , and now im panicking sooo much! OH wont look hes being a complete knob tbh, he looked after i had my daughter and i had a epsiotomy then!! he wont look just to put my mind at rest and its really getting to me. i asked him to look a min ago and he said "im not looking at ur big gapping hole"!! im so upset, i mean he watched our two kids come into the world!! anyway im quite sore down there.. it has only been 19days like, but im so worried. Shall i go docs on friday to get checked? or is it normally like that sorry lol

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Oct 20th, 2009, 21:03 PM	#2
Komatsu Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: British Columbia , Canada Posts: 306	Can't help you hon , but if it's really sore and you're worried I'd see the doctor . I would have flipped if my husband had said that to me .

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Oct 20th, 2009, 21:06 PM	#3
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	I had lumps and bumps for ages. I do think it's best to get checked out though hun, even for piece of mind. Doctors come across these things every day so there's no need to be worried about asking them what's normal and what's not. If they feel they need to check you out, then atleast you know you did the right thing x

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Oct 21st, 2009, 04:07 AM	#4
lulu0504 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: England Posts: 1,559	My OH refused to look 'down there' for a while after my episiotomy. He said it would look "like a butchers window display" I'd definitely get checked out though, just in case. As toria said, they see that kind of thing on a daily basis.

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Oct 21st, 2009, 04:20 AM	#5
rach321 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Herts Posts: 1,217	I'd get it checked just to put your mind at rest and if there's anything wrong then it can be sorted out sooner rather than leaving it.

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Oct 21st, 2009, 05:25 AM	#6
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	thanks. im going docs on friday so scared lol.. its so sore, like when i have a wee around that area lol the only way i can discribe it is it feels like iv ripped it or something, but i havent. I had a cathater in labour and it seeems to stem since iv had that =/ hmm

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Oct 21st, 2009, 13:44 PM	#7
bumpsmum Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: greenock, scotland Posts: 1,613	I had a section but I have heard a few girls mention to pour water/spray water on your sorebits (sorry ) as this dilutes the urine taking the sting out. Alternatively if you have time (which with a 19 day old cutie im sure its limited) wee in the shower with the shower head down there xx

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Oct 21st, 2009, 14:04 PM	#8
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	but surely it shouldnt be this sore 3weeks after lol? i spoke to HV and she said its probs just swallon and bruised. lol =[

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Oct 22nd, 2009, 02:24 AM	#9
Novbaby08 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 2,393	I didn't have bumps....that I know of...but I wanted to say you are brave for looking, I also was stitched up there, and I got goosebumps just thinking about looking, I wouldn't even touch the area with my bare hands.

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Oct 22nd, 2009, 02:44 AM	#10
rachiem Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: UK Posts: 90	I had bumps "in there" too, spoke to my doc cause i was worried and he said it was scar tissue. I also had an episiotomy, forceps delivery. I did not start to feel back to normal down there till about 8 weeks post natal. Give it time it will get better. xx

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