My poor lady garden

snettyb · Jul 3rd, 2009, 16:12 PM

I had a 2 degree tear after having jake and it wasn't stitched (after alot of umming and ahhing from the MW's) Now it feels like something is falling out of me all the time. I dunno how exactly to describe it but it just don't feel right!! It has healed but not pulled together IYKWIM and i feel like i have chuff like a wizards sleeve

Sex doesn't feel right, walking doesn't feel right and i've looked at it and it don't look right!! I also had a little rummage and it don't feel right inside either, its weird, my cervix is RIGHT THERE!! As if its almost prodruding. I am so upset about it and its getting me down....ALOT!!

Does anyone else not feel right, down there? xx

lauraperrysan · Jul 3rd, 2009, 16:35 PM

I had the same as what you are experiencing I think. I had a tear too, the midwifes did not stitch me up, said it would heal itself and didn't need it (I honestly think it was because they were so busy and didn't have time)!! I had to go to my gp and speak to him and then got booked in with gyne to have it stitched up in an op.
Now all is fine but it got me down so much afterwards.
Speak to ur gp, unfortunately it prob wont heal on it's own by the sounds of it
xx

snettyb · Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:05 PM

i had a feeling that would be the case! My OH says to go to the doc too but it means starting from scratch in the whole healing of the down stairs region........GUTTED!! But to be honest i think an op and a few weeks of pain would be better than a life time of having a region that i am ashamed of. Would i need to pay for the op of would i get it on the NHS? xx

jessr123 · Jul 4th, 2009, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by snettyb

i had a feeling that would be the case! My OH says to go to the doc too but it means starting from scratch in the whole healing of the down stairs region........GUTTED!! But to be honest i think an op and a few weeks of pain would be better than a life time of having a region that i am ashamed of. Would i need to pay for the op of would i get it on the NHS? xx

You should get it on the NHS. They missed stitching up some of my bits - I went back 3 times to say it wasn't right and they are finally sorting it out after claiming 'they didn't notice it the first few times'

It's hard to miss a 1.5cm hole in your labia. Stick up for yourself if they don't offer surgery initially.

Blah11 · Jul 4th, 2009, 06:14 AM

You'll get it on the NHS. If you've ever watched embarrassing bodies on ch4, theyve had a few mummies who havent went back to normal down there. one had a sort of prolapse and her cervix was all hangy and she got it fixed with a simple op. Go to docs, itll be better in the long run x

Jul 3rd, 2009, 16:12 PM	#1
snettyb Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Washington, Tyne & Wear Posts: 1,902	My poor lady garden I had a 2 degree tear after having jake and it wasn't stitched (after alot of umming and ahhing from the MW's) Now it feels like something is falling out of me all the time. I dunno how exactly to describe it but it just don't feel right!! It has healed but not pulled together IYKWIM and i feel like i have chuff like a wizards sleeve Sex doesn't feel right, walking doesn't feel right and i've looked at it and it don't look right!! I also had a little rummage and it don't feel right inside either, its weird, my cervix is RIGHT THERE!! As if its almost prodruding. I am so upset about it and its getting me down....ALOT!! Does anyone else not feel right, down there? xx

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lauraperrysan Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Dorset Posts: 1,882	I had the same as what you are experiencing I think. I had a tear too, the midwifes did not stitch me up, said it would heal itself and didn't need it (I honestly think it was because they were so busy and didn't have time)!! I had to go to my gp and speak to him and then got booked in with gyne to have it stitched up in an op. Now all is fine but it got me down so much afterwards. Speak to ur gp, unfortunately it prob wont heal on it's own by the sounds of it xx

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snettyb Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Washington, Tyne & Wear Posts: 1,902	i had a feeling that would be the case! My OH says to go to the doc too but it means starting from scratch in the whole healing of the down stairs region........GUTTED!! But to be honest i think an op and a few weeks of pain would be better than a life time of having a region that i am ashamed of. Would i need to pay for the op of would i get it on the NHS? xx

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Jul 4th, 2009, 06:14 AM	#5
Blah11 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 32,873	You'll get it on the NHS. If you've ever watched embarrassing bodies on ch4, theyve had a few mummies who havent went back to normal down there. one had a sort of prolapse and her cervix was all hangy and she got it fixed with a simple op. Go to docs, itll be better in the long run x

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