Tilly, I have Alfie in the bath with me and get him washed and sorted then Paul takes him off me and sorts him out whilst I then have my bath.

As for leaving her when you leave the room, have you not got a walker you can put her in?

If you don't already have one, why not invest in a travel cot, there are some reasonably cheap ones now, and honestly they are a god send!! You can pop Bethanie in there whilst you make a drink, prepare dinner.....anything and you will know she is safe! I used mine soo much with Jade as we travelled a lot too, it was one of the best things I had! x

uahhh, I have the same

got specially prepared with changing table on the cot bed, with a baby bath which holds on the normal bath and even with a pouch sling!

but picking up and putting down little one 24/7 makes me backache as well!!!

wonder if those breastfeeding pillows are the solution???

they say, your back is still weak after giving birth as you still have this hormon which softens all muscles in your body, so you will be able to give birth!

and they advice you should be careful with your back!

but lifting up 3kg the entire day is causing backache to such an unsportive person like me, whether I am careful with my back or not!!!

sorry, sweetsammi, no offence meant, do not want to say you are unsportive as well!

I think - or let's say I hope - it will just go by the time when this hormon finally leaves the body and the muscles start to build up!

my back is fine again.

hope yours as well

Glad ur feelin better mickey Well. ive been stupid..My aches all disappeared yay!! Then i went out clothes shopping and tried to carry too many bags back from town..and now its worse then ever! Stupid girl!! Got some lovely size 8 skinny jeans though yayayay! Advice girls...make ur OH carry them heavy bags for u lol x