Really missing intimacy!

Beltane · Feb 13th, 2009, 20:13 PM

I am counting down the days until I can have sex with my husband again. I really miss it! Has anyone been able to before 6 weeks?!

**Tiff** · Feb 13th, 2009, 22:18 PM

I tried at 5 weeks, and was pretty tender. When I went for my 6 week check up my doctor did an internal and I still had a few stitches that hadn't fully healed yet. He said it'd be another week for them to heal, and to wait another week to try having sex again. We just did this morning and it was much better than the last time I tried!

So we waited 8 weeks in total. Not by my choice though. I had minor tearing, and that's it. No epistiotomy (sp?) or anything like that.

pennysbored · Feb 14th, 2009, 03:51 AM

Err...1 week 6 days.
But I had no tearing, and she was early and small.
And I really, really wanted it.

Dragonfly · Feb 14th, 2009, 04:01 AM

I have sort of asked in a round about way to my midwife and even with my c section looks like its 6 weeks wait, or 5 as William is a week old. And for some reason I am dam horny! never felt that way through the pregancy but now I do.

Sophie1205 · Feb 14th, 2009, 19:40 PM

I think we did when he was 4 weeks old. I did hurt yeah and still does now. But I havent got my "6 week" check untill wednesday when he will be almost 10 weeks old! So I still dont know if ive healed properly yet. x

**Vickie** · Feb 14th, 2009, 19:41 PM

5 weeks, was still a little tender though!

carries · Feb 15th, 2009, 03:25 AM

4 weeks for us but was a little sore. Is fine now though. Why dont you , ahem, try other methods of intimacy? Oscar is in his cot at the foot of our bed so we do other stuff more than having sex as i am worried about waking him up!

emmajane · Feb 15th, 2009, 04:15 AM

We managed just before 2 weeks and was fine.

lollylou1 · Feb 15th, 2009, 04:28 AM

i was about 4 weeks when i did it and it was very tender, we waited another week and did it and it hurt lots less but still felt like my virginity had grown back LOL

Lou
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Jkelmum · Feb 15th, 2009, 05:50 AM

After ethan it was about 2 wks cant remember exactly when ...mainly due to hubby not allowin it in pregnancy so i was gaggin for it lol

Feb 13th, 2009, 20:13 PM	#1
Beltane Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 4,384	Really missing intimacy! I am counting down the days until I can have sex with my husband again. I really miss it! Has anyone been able to before 6 weeks?!

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Feb 13th, 2009, 22:18 PM	#2
Tiff Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 17,542	I tried at 5 weeks, and was pretty tender. When I went for my 6 week check up my doctor did an internal and I still had a few stitches that hadn't fully healed yet. He said it'd be another week for them to heal, and to wait another week to try having sex again. We just did this morning and it was much better than the last time I tried! So we waited 8 weeks in total. Not by my choice though. I had minor tearing, and that's it. No epistiotomy (sp?) or anything like that.

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Feb 14th, 2009, 03:51 AM	#3
pennysbored Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Vancouver BC, Canada Posts: 2,357	Err...1 week 6 days. But I had no tearing, and she was early and small. And I really, really wanted it.

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Dragonfly Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: N.Ireland Posts: 13,133	I have sort of asked in a round about way to my midwife and even with my c section looks like its 6 weeks wait, or 5 as William is a week old. And for some reason I am dam horny! never felt that way through the pregancy but now I do.

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Sophie1205 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Merseyside, UK Posts: 5,884	I think we did when he was 4 weeks old. I did hurt yeah and still does now. But I havent got my "6 week" check untill wednesday when he will be almost 10 weeks old! So I still dont know if ive healed properly yet. x

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Feb 14th, 2009, 19:41 PM	#6
Vickie Mum (Mom) Administrator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 75,703	5 weeks, was still a little tender though!

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Feb 15th, 2009, 03:25 AM	#7
carries Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,984	4 weeks for us but was a little sore. Is fine now though. Why dont you , ahem, try other methods of intimacy? Oscar is in his cot at the foot of our bed so we do other stuff more than having sex as i am worried about waking him up!

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Feb 15th, 2009, 04:15 AM	#8
emmajane Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Brighton Posts: 801	We managed just before 2 weeks and was fine.

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Feb 15th, 2009, 04:28 AM	#9
lollylou1 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Telford Shropshire Posts: 4,906	i was about 4 weeks when i did it and it was very tender, we waited another week and did it and it hurt lots less but still felt like my virginity had grown back LOL Lou xxx
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Feb 15th, 2009, 05:50 AM	#10
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	After ethan it was about 2 wks cant remember exactly when ...mainly due to hubby not allowin it in pregnancy so i was gaggin for it lol

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