Some one give me a hug...

laura4 · Jan 18th, 2009, 08:31 AM

I had a m/c about 4 weeks ago.. and I have not cried for about a week, but today have been really down and I had to have a little cry...
Laura xxxx

MrsJD · Jan 18th, 2009, 08:32 AM

Oh hun, sorry for your loss. I too misscarried last weekend and was totally numb, no tears whatsoever however, on friday night I just couldn't stop

haaza123 · Jan 18th, 2009, 08:37 AM

Sending both of you huge

.

Take care
xxxx

MrsJD · Jan 18th, 2009, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by haaza123

Sending both of you huge

.

Take care
xxxx

Thanks Haaza123

XXXX

susan_1981 · Jan 18th, 2009, 08:59 AM

Aw, here, have 2

I think I've done my crying for my miscarriage and am now just blocking it out, concentrating on trying again. Everytime I think about my miscarriage, I still feel this sense of shock and sadness so I'm just trying to think about the future now rather than the past xxxx

becky77 · Jan 18th, 2009, 08:59 AM

Its very early days yet for both of you ladies,have a good cry if you need to .

Drazic<3 · Jan 18th, 2009, 09:15 AM

Please dont stop yourself from grieving, its the most normal thing, dont worry. We all have good days and bad, but the old cliche is true = things will look and feel better with time. For now, take sometime for yourselves. Thinking of you both

vickielm · Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:50 PM

I too feel the same so you girls are not alone. I found out i lost my twins late December, a scan confirmed this on 9th Jan. Had a D+C on 12th Jan and at first i could not stop crying! Then i would feel empty and numb, like it was happening to someone else! Now i have the odd day when i feel so alone and depressed and other days i feel like nothing as ever happend! Think this is because i am trying to block it out!

I feel i am ready to go back to work so got a back to work note for monday. I think this will help take my mind off things as i have just been sat at home (well not exactly i have decorated the kitchen over the past 2 days! still not finished so going to do the glossing tomorrow)!!

Vik
Ps. sorry for your losses also.
xx

Mynxie · Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:54 PM

sorry to hear that you're having a tough day and obviously sorry about your loss

MrsJD · Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by susan_1981

Aw, here, have 2

I think I've done my crying for my miscarriage and am now just blocking it out, concentrating on trying again. Everytime I think about my miscarriage, I still feel this sense of shock and sadness so I'm just trying to think about the future now rather than the past xxxx

Thanks Susan,

XX

Jan 18th, 2009, 08:31 AM	#1
laura4 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: midlands GB Posts: 44	Some one give me a hug... I had a m/c about 4 weeks ago.. and I have not cried for about a week, but today have been really down and I had to have a little cry... Laura xxxx

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Jan 18th, 2009, 08:32 AM	#2
MrsJD Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 7,889	Oh hun, sorry for your loss. I too misscarried last weekend and was totally numb, no tears whatsoever however, on friday night I just couldn't stop
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Jan 18th, 2009, 08:37 AM	#3
haaza123 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 437	Sending both of you huge . Take care xxxx

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Jan 18th, 2009, 08:59 AM	#5
susan_1981 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Kent Posts: 2,141	Aw, here, have 2 I think I've done my crying for my miscarriage and am now just blocking it out, concentrating on trying again. Everytime I think about my miscarriage, I still feel this sense of shock and sadness so I'm just trying to think about the future now rather than the past xxxx

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Jan 18th, 2009, 08:59 AM	#6
becky77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: hereford Posts: 1,529	Its very early days yet for both of you ladies,have a good cry if you need to .

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Jan 18th, 2009, 09:15 AM	#7
Drazic<3 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Norfolk, England. Posts: 9,295	Please dont stop yourself from grieving, its the most normal thing, dont worry. We all have good days and bad, but the old cliche is true = things will look and feel better with time. For now, take sometime for yourselves. Thinking of you both

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:50 PM	#8
vickielm Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Darwen Posts: 488	I too feel the same so you girls are not alone. I found out i lost my twins late December, a scan confirmed this on 9th Jan. Had a D+C on 12th Jan and at first i could not stop crying! Then i would feel empty and numb, like it was happening to someone else! Now i have the odd day when i feel so alone and depressed and other days i feel like nothing as ever happend! Think this is because i am trying to block it out! I feel i am ready to go back to work so got a back to work note for monday. I think this will help take my mind off things as i have just been sat at home (well not exactly i have decorated the kitchen over the past 2 days! still not finished so going to do the glossing tomorrow)!! Vik Ps. sorry for your losses also. xx

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Jan 22nd, 2009, 16:54 PM	#9
Mynxie Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: In a dungeon lol Posts: 5,954	sorry to hear that you're having a tough day and obviously sorry about your loss

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