Recurrent MC worried that there's something wrong - Page 2

buffycat · Jan 10th, 2009, 14:37 PM

hiya.....

i had my second mc last month (twins).....due to my arthritis and that we have been trying for 2 years, i have also been referred. I'm waiting for my appointment too.....

fingers crossed you don't have to wait too long, and fingers crossed that everything goes ok for you.....

Drazic<3 · Jan 11th, 2009, 06:19 AM

Im sorry for your losses, hope you find the answers your looking for

princess_t · Jan 11th, 2009, 06:54 AM

Sorry for your loss hun.

honey08 · Jan 11th, 2009, 07:01 AM

so sry for ur losses girls

can i ask,if OH has got chromosome problems,is it there first childd there trying for, or cud they have kids and then this happens all of a suddern ?
i mmc in march08 and it truley devastated us and his son,im now over 13wks and hope2god this is guna be the happy crying baby we take home,cos i cudnt do it again, i did read something bout chemicals the other day and it said this is just purely bad luck OR ur progs doesnt rise high enough for the egg to latch on, this was in baby and pregnancy magazine,they have lots of info bout losses etc
hope u all get to become mums and dads asap

Tracie87 · Jan 11th, 2009, 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by honey08

so sry for ur losses girls

can i ask,if OH has got chromosome problems,is it there first childd there trying for, or cud they have kids and then this happens all of a suddern ?
i mmc in march08 and it truley devastated us and his son,im now over 13wks and hope2god this is guna be the happy crying baby we take home,cos i cudnt do it again, i did read something bout chemicals the other day and it said this is just purely bad luck OR ur progs doesnt rise high enough for the egg to latch on, this was in baby and pregnancy magazine,they have lots of info bout losses etc
hope u all get to become mums and dads asap

i carry a chomosme problem i cant carry a baby past 7 weeks because there either lacking part of the chomosme or have 2 much. i have a chance of havintg a baby naturally but only a 1 in 4 chance due to the chomosme.
its more than likely thre first child but not always u could get a good egg/sperm with the good chomose in and makes a baby. even tho if either u or OH did carry a chomomse problem they advise u to have an amno as nothing is 100%. chomosme problems is a cause of high reacurrant m/cs tho.

WildChild · Jan 16th, 2009, 09:01 AM

Hi Girls,

Thanks so much for your replies.
Those of you who had appointments in this week, how did it go?

Not knowing is the worst, so just by starting the process of finding whats
wrong has made me more positive.

Good luck to all of you!

xx

bklove · Jan 19th, 2009, 13:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Tracie87

yep been there hunni... iv had 4m/cs all died at the same time each pregnancy. gt refered for all tests took 3 months 2 get results, a further 3 months 2 see a specialist. found out i have a chromosme defect. i need IVF/PGD in order 2 have a baby..

reacurrant can be due to many reasons... as your dr to tell them all 2 u..

gd luck
xx

It's crazy to hear it took so long to get answers. Is it easier knowing what the problem is? I have had 2 and i'm about to find out on th if I just experienced a 3rd miscarriage, I believe so and i'm ready to find out what is going on. It's been less than a year, but I had my first one a few years back and its the same thing, all at the same time.

Tracie87 · Jan 19th, 2009, 14:16 PM

yes its alot easier knowing massive weight off my mind. but the waiting is so hard

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buffycat Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Shropshire, England. Posts: 2,791	hiya..... i had my second mc last month (twins).....due to my arthritis and that we have been trying for 2 years, i have also been referred. I'm waiting for my appointment too..... fingers crossed you don't have to wait too long, and fingers crossed that everything goes ok for you.....

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Drazic<3 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Norfolk, England. Posts: 9,295	Im sorry for your losses, hope you find the answers your looking for

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honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,682	so sry for ur losses girls can i ask,if OH has got chromosome problems,is it there first childd there trying for, or cud they have kids and then this happens all of a suddern ? i mmc in march08 and it truley devastated us and his son,im now over 13wks and hope2god this is guna be the happy crying baby we take home,cos i cudnt do it again, i did read something bout chemicals the other day and it said this is just purely bad luck OR ur progs doesnt rise high enough for the egg to latch on, this was in baby and pregnancy magazine,they have lots of info bout losses etc hope u all get to become mums and dads asap

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WildChild Trying to conceive (TTC) Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 3	Hi Girls, Thanks so much for your replies. Those of you who had appointments in this week, how did it go? Not knowing is the worst, so just by starting the process of finding whats wrong has made me more positive. Good luck to all of you! xx

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