Sad and disappointed

Jessa · Nov 4th, 2008, 19:57 PM

I know that what I've been through it nothing compared to what some of you have experienced, but I'm sad and disappointed nonetheless. When I posted tonight I realized that my ticker indicates that it's been almost 3 months since my miscarriage. I can't really believe it's been that long, and I'm so disappointed that I'm not pregnant again. My DH and I got pregnant our first cycle trying back in June, but that obviously didn't work out. I figured since it was so easy last time that it wouldn't take us much time to get pregnant again. Guess I was wrong, eh?

And, I'm so sensitive to what other people say. For example, at the end of the day today I said to the custodian at work "Well, that was a long day" and he replied, "Yup. Now it's off to pick up your kids, right?". Obviously he had me confused with someone else, but it sucks because that's what I WANT to be doing!

I'm really trying to stay positive. It'll happen. Many people have tried a lot longer than this. I just need to stay strong.

miel · Nov 4th, 2008, 20:01 PM

Sambatiki · Nov 4th, 2008, 20:01 PM

Ohhh sorry for you loss

Milestones are always hard. But it gets easier..

Best of luck

JASMAK · Nov 4th, 2008, 20:04 PM

ladynice · Nov 4th, 2008, 20:22 PM

Stay strong and hang in there honey

Alexas Mommy · Nov 4th, 2008, 20:29 PM

dizzy65 · Nov 4th, 2008, 20:41 PM

cleckner04 · Nov 4th, 2008, 21:42 PM

JLS · Nov 5th, 2008, 13:23 PM

Visqueen · Nov 5th, 2008, 13:28 PM

I know how you feel I got

1st month ttc then had mmc in April. Im on my 8th cycle now cant believe it but we will get there, keep strong

Nov 4th, 2008, 19:57 PM	#1
Jessa Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 5,827	Sad and disappointed I know that what I've been through it nothing compared to what some of you have experienced, but I'm sad and disappointed nonetheless. When I posted tonight I realized that my ticker indicates that it's been almost 3 months since my miscarriage. I can't really believe it's been that long, and I'm so disappointed that I'm not pregnant again. My DH and I got pregnant our first cycle trying back in June, but that obviously didn't work out. I figured since it was so easy last time that it wouldn't take us much time to get pregnant again. Guess I was wrong, eh? And, I'm so sensitive to what other people say. For example, at the end of the day today I said to the custodian at work "Well, that was a long day" and he replied, "Yup. Now it's off to pick up your kids, right?". Obviously he had me confused with someone else, but it sucks because that's what I WANT to be doing! I'm really trying to stay positive. It'll happen. Many people have tried a lot longer than this. I just need to stay strong.

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Sambatiki Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Warwickshire/oxfordshire border Posts: 31,014	Ohhh sorry for you loss Milestones are always hard. But it gets easier.. Best of luck

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Visqueen Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 707	I know how you feel I got 1st month ttc then had mmc in April. Im on my 8th cycle now cant believe it but we will get there, keep strong

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