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Oct 8th, 2008, 18:56 PM
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| Back from ultrasound
Everything is gone. The bleeding is horrible this time, and the cramps are just awful, really terrible. I was in so much pain last night and still this morning. I can't believe I have had three m/c in a row. Why is life so unfair? What's wrong with me? I just feel numb, and last night I kept waking up, hoping that it was all a terrible nightmare, but, no, I still had the hospital bracelet on and the cramps were there. I thought because I was on Clomid this time, it would be a keeper. I just don't know what to think anymore. Yesterday, before this all happened, I bought 4 pairs of maternity pants, and a maternity shirt. I feel like I jinxed myself, and I wish I could turn back time. Oh yeah, and I told my mom, because she came and watched the kids so that my husband could go to the ER with me, and she said, "maybe this is your body trying to say not to have kids".  WHY would she say that??? | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 8th, 2008, 19:22 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Im so so sorry. 
Your Mother was very tactless in saying that.
You can have kids, please dont let what she said upset you. 
I don know how it wrks in Canada, but in the UK if you have 3 m/c in a row it does warrant an investigation i hope they can do this for you.
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Oct 8th, 2008, 19:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | OMG I am SO sorry. Shame on your mother for saying something like that. I hope you can get the testing you need to figure out the issue. I wish you the best of luck and I'll be thinking of you. | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 8th, 2008, 19:42 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I am so sorry for your loss. And I'm sorry that you're mom was so insensitive at a time when you need her the most. | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 8th, 2008, 19:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh darling, I'm so sorry I have had 3 mcs and 1 ectopic and I still believe that one day I will have children. Don't give up hope on having more. I would say your mum just didn't know what to say and managed to come out with the wrong thing, so many people do, even loved ones, one of the reasons this forum is so great. Thinking of you xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 8th, 2008, 21:08 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Im so sorry to hear what your going through hun ! I live in canada also and i had 3 m/c when i was 17 years old they did do lots of tests because after 3 it usually means a fertility problem ..they found out my uterus was upside down ..plus i was on depo which ruined most of my ovaries I was however able to get pregnant again with my son whos 4 months now..
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Oct 8th, 2008, 21:10 PM
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Oct 8th, 2008, 21:19 PM
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Oct 8th, 2008, 21:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | So sorry... My thoughts are with you! xxx Omi | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 8th, 2008, 21:23 PM
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