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Sep 14th, 2006, 22:42 PM
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what a lovely poem it really hit home for me. it means so much to me to talk about my lost baby but my fiance won't discuss it as its too soon for him as he's already lost his mother this year in February to cancer. were going to stay away from baby making till we marry in a year which should give him time to grieve for both baby and his mum. we went and put flowers down on his mum's grave on Sunday and put some down for the baby too and asked his mum to take care of our baby for us he seemed really at peace with that gesture and when we get married i'm having a two part bouquet made up for his mum and the baby to be put down after the ceremony so they know that they will be in our hearts on our special day. good luck to you trying to conceive again. xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 14th, 2006, 22:50 PM
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#12 | | Guest | Awww 4evahopeful.
Thats such a sweet thing to do with the bouquet!
I left mine on Grahams grandad's grave.
I want to go to the baby garden part of the cemetery to put flowers down, i think i need to as part of my grieving process.
Please post in here about your Angel, we'd love to give you support and somewhere to come and chat
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Sep 15th, 2006, 09:11 AM
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| thank you so much for the lovely things you have been saying and for sharing your stories it is nice to know there someone that understands how it feels, and not just be thinking that i should be getting over it by now!!! althoe noone has said that to my face i know people think it.x  | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 15th, 2006, 09:13 AM
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| 4evahopeful that it such a sweet thing you atr doing and im sure that they will be looking down on you on yr special day. gd luck and baby dust to us all.x | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 15th, 2006, 11:04 AM
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#15 | | Guest | Shell, i miscarried in February, and this time i can't seem to pick myself up from it at all.
I have been off work on and off since then, and haven't been in work at all since the end of June.
Everyone heals at their own speed, and i'm like you i feel like people look at me like "you should so be over it by now" but i just can't move forward, am really struggling day to day.
Lots of hugs for you, we're all here for you if you need to rant or cry or just ramble on
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Sep 15th, 2006, 13:05 PM
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| thanks hayley, im sorry to hear that you having a hard time moving on as well we just got to try and stay positive, things will happen when they ready to and when we least expect it.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 15th, 2006, 13:11 PM
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#17 | | Guest | I hope so!!
Thats why we're not TTC religiously at the moment, more of an if it happens it happens attitude!!
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Sep 16th, 2006, 01:00 AM
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Sep 16th, 2006, 09:28 AM
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| aww hayley b we get over it in our onw time not that we ever really will, the people that say that dont understand what we going threw.!!
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Sep 17th, 2006, 17:34 PM
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| y cant people just let us get over it in our own time what do they understand? 
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