miscarrying

Marg_27 · Aug 27th, 2008, 06:38 AM

After experiencing brown spotting, then heavy red blood and pains I went for an early scan that showed my babies heart had stopped only week ago, at 6weeks 3 days. Im at home and waiting to miscarry naturally, I'm getting alot of brown thick lumpy discharge (sorry for tmi) and am just wanting to kno what to expect.

buffycat · Aug 27th, 2008, 06:57 AM

hi....

i am so sorry that this is happening.........

i had a natural miscarriage in march........i was 10 weeks.....if you are getting a lot of discharge, then that is a sign that it is happening naturally.....for me, there was a lot of blood over about 10 days, with the first 2 having terrible pains too...

i wish i could help though....this is so unfair....if you need someone to talk, i am here.......

take care....

cherylanne · Aug 27th, 2008, 07:02 AM

TMI
Hi hun, i had a natural m/c in june. It started with losing red blood and clots and then i got painful period like pains and i passed the sac. After that i bled (period like some smaller clots) for nearly 2 weeks.

I am so sorry you are going through this hun, it's such a heartbreaking experience. We're all here for you if you want to talk xxx

Logiebear · Aug 27th, 2008, 08:31 AM

I had a m/c in Jan at 6 weeks and I bled very heavily for 2 weeks with really heavy clots and I saw the phetul pole too. Still haunts me.

Then I had a missed m/c in May and I had a ERPC (D&C) on May16th as I waited at home for 2 weeks for it to happen naturally but it didn't so I had the op to prevent infection and because I couln't take any more waiting, it was torture.

I am sorry this is happening to you hun, it is awful but be prepared, it can be worse than you imagined hun

JJF · Aug 27th, 2008, 09:11 AM

so sorry for your loss! You should definitly expect some fresh bright red blood to start happening or if it stays brown you can assume its not doing its thing naturally. I've had 3 M/C's and they each hurt like hell for about an hour and then the cramps/pain became much more managable throughout the next 6 or so hours and then I was just left with bleeding for a week-2weeks. I can't see where you live, but I'm in the US, and after this last MC my doc gave me some pills after I passed everything that made the bleeding stop within 12 hours. I don't hear much of that being said on here, so I don't think those pills are typical but just thought I'd throw that out there for the ladies on this board, there IS something the docs can do to help stop the bleeding (AFTER your MC is complete)

trishk · Aug 27th, 2008, 09:24 AM

Im so sorry for your loss! I cant really answer your question as i had a D&C after mine but i didn't want to read and run! We are all here for you if you would like to talk about anything!

Marg_27 · Aug 27th, 2008, 14:34 PM

Thank you all so much for all the support and information.
Well, so far not much has happened, hav had a massive pain earlier but stopped after bout 10 mins. Hav only had 3 lots of bleeding 1.Sun 6pm not heavy 2.Mon 9pm heavy 3.Tues 2pm not heavy but today all I hav is brown discharge (sorry for tmi).
Got a scan booked on the 10th to see if everythings gone, otherwise ill hav 2 hav a d&c

Barneyboo · Aug 27th, 2008, 14:52 PM

So sorry for you loss x x x

I had a m/c in July I started to bleed on the Thursday followed by clots and then on Monday passed the sac

...I then bleed for approx 10 days after that.

We are all here for you x x x

**Chris77** · Aug 27th, 2008, 14:59 PM

Marg, I don't have any information for you but just wanted to tell you how very very sorry I am for your loss.

Marg_27 · Aug 27th, 2008, 15:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Logiebear

I had a m/c in Jan at 6 weeks and I bled very heavily for 2 weeks with really heavy clots and I saw the phetul pole too. Still haunts me.

Then I had a missed m/c in May and I had a ERPC (D&C) on May16th as I waited at home for 2 weeks for it to happen naturally but it didn't so I had the op to prevent infection and because I couln't take any more waiting, it was torture.

I am sorry this is happening to you hun, it is awful but be prepared, it can be worse than you imagined hun

Sorry if this sounds silly, but what is the phetul pole?

Also alot of you hav said they knew when they lost their sac, does this happen with most people and what is it like? I just want to b prepared for whatever I might see.

Aug 27th, 2008, 06:38 AM	#1
Marg_27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 2,561	miscarrying After experiencing brown spotting, then heavy red blood and pains I went for an early scan that showed my babies heart had stopped only week ago, at 6weeks 3 days. Im at home and waiting to miscarry naturally, I'm getting alot of brown thick lumpy discharge (sorry for tmi) and am just wanting to kno what to expect.

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Aug 27th, 2008, 06:57 AM	#2
buffycat Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Shropshire, England. Posts: 2,791	hi.... i am so sorry that this is happening......... i had a natural miscarriage in march........i was 10 weeks.....if you are getting a lot of discharge, then that is a sign that it is happening naturally.....for me, there was a lot of blood over about 10 days, with the first 2 having terrible pains too... i wish i could help though....this is so unfair....if you need someone to talk, i am here....... take care....

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Aug 27th, 2008, 07:02 AM	#3
cherylanne Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Lancashire Posts: 1,452	TMI Hi hun, i had a natural m/c in june. It started with losing red blood and clots and then i got painful period like pains and i passed the sac. After that i bled (period like some smaller clots) for nearly 2 weeks. I am so sorry you are going through this hun, it's such a heartbreaking experience. We're all here for you if you want to talk xxx

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Aug 27th, 2008, 08:31 AM	#4
Logiebear Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Manchester, England Posts: 3,516	I had a m/c in Jan at 6 weeks and I bled very heavily for 2 weeks with really heavy clots and I saw the phetul pole too. Still haunts me. Then I had a missed m/c in May and I had a ERPC (D&C) on May16th as I waited at home for 2 weeks for it to happen naturally but it didn't so I had the op to prevent infection and because I couln't take any more waiting, it was torture. I am sorry this is happening to you hun, it is awful but be prepared, it can be worse than you imagined hun

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Aug 27th, 2008, 09:11 AM	#5
JJF Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: USA-Atlanta, GA Posts: 1,320	so sorry for your loss! You should definitly expect some fresh bright red blood to start happening or if it stays brown you can assume its not doing its thing naturally. I've had 3 M/C's and they each hurt like hell for about an hour and then the cramps/pain became much more managable throughout the next 6 or so hours and then I was just left with bleeding for a week-2weeks. I can't see where you live, but I'm in the US, and after this last MC my doc gave me some pills after I passed everything that made the bleeding stop within 12 hours. I don't hear much of that being said on here, so I don't think those pills are typical but just thought I'd throw that out there for the ladies on this board, there IS something the docs can do to help stop the bleeding (AFTER your MC is complete)

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Aug 27th, 2008, 09:24 AM	#6
trishk Dad Inactive Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Ireland Posts: 401	Im so sorry for your loss! I cant really answer your question as i had a D&C after mine but i didn't want to read and run! We are all here for you if you would like to talk about anything!

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Aug 27th, 2008, 14:34 PM	#7
Marg_27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 2,561	Thank you all so much for all the support and information. Well, so far not much has happened, hav had a massive pain earlier but stopped after bout 10 mins. Hav only had 3 lots of bleeding 1.Sun 6pm not heavy 2.Mon 9pm heavy 3.Tues 2pm not heavy but today all I hav is brown discharge (sorry for tmi). Got a scan booked on the 10th to see if everythings gone, otherwise ill hav 2 hav a d&c

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Aug 27th, 2008, 14:52 PM	#8
Barneyboo Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2,510	So sorry for you loss x x x I had a m/c in July I started to bleed on the Thursday followed by clots and then on Monday passed the sac ...I then bleed for approx 10 days after that. We are all here for you x x x

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Aug 27th, 2008, 14:59 PM	#9
Chris77 Trying to conceive (TTC) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New York, USA Posts: 40,530	Marg, I don't have any information for you but just wanted to tell you how very very sorry I am for your loss.
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