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Aug 13th, 2008, 23:31 PM
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#1 | | mum to oscar and an angel Active BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | the law on babies after erpc. might be upsetting for some, sorry can anyone help? i signed the form saying i wanted to be contacted. and not for them to deal with the remains themselves. i wanted to do this, i have not been contacted yet. does anyone know the law, and what rights i have if they have discarded them without my consent? sorry if this has upset anyone, but i dont know what to do. erpc was on the 31st, should i have heard from now?  | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 14th, 2008, 03:34 AM
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#2 | | TTC for over 3 years BabyandBump Team
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh sweet I'm not too sure. I could contact your local parliament, they can sometimes help. Find out where you stand.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 14th, 2008, 10:23 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | sorry darlin I have no idea, I let the hpital take mine  xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 14th, 2008, 10:36 AM
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#4 | | Mum of 5 and 4 losses BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I signed the form too with my last miscarriage that I wanted to deal with the remains myself and they contacted me about a month later
How long has it been hun?  | | | | Status: Online
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Aug 14th, 2008, 10:38 AM
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#5 | | Mum of 5 and 4 losses BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I have just re-read your post and I would say its too soon to have heard, with my baby it took nearly a month  | | | | Status: Online
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Aug 14th, 2008, 19:06 PM
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#6 | | mum to oscar and an angel Active BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | thanks everyone, will wait. see if they contact me. | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 14th, 2008, 20:36 PM
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#7 | | TTC #1 after M/C in Feb08 BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hope they contact you soon! xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 15th, 2008, 10:11 AM
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#8 | | 2losses pregnant BnB Addict
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Aug 22nd, 2008, 17:13 PM
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#9 | | Mum of 2, TTC after 4 m/c Active BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hi, it took about 3 weeks to get remains back from the hospital after my miscarriage, i did phone them a few days after the miscarriage as i had signed the form saying the hospital should deal with the remains and then changed my mind and was told id need to chose a funeral director and the remains would be go there. Have you heard from them ?  I dont think they would have done anything without your consent  | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 23rd, 2008, 00:14 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  I hope they contact you soon. Is there someone you can call just to ask how long people usually have to wait for? x | | | | Status: Offline
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