Stillborn daughters ashes - Page 3

superp123 · Aug 8th, 2008, 23:33 PM

I just wanted to send some

P

doctordeesmrs · Aug 9th, 2008, 03:07 AM

FJL · Aug 9th, 2008, 03:24 AM

A big

to you hun. I don't have any advice about the ashes but I think that so long as you tell yourself that there is no hurry to decide what to do with them or where to put them, that you will one day know what to do

I think writing is so theraputic and I think it is a great idea to tell your story. We're all here for you if you want to share it with us but if you don't then thats fine, just write it down. Even if you're not telling a bunch of people, you're getting those feelings and your story out of yourself and onto paper and that will really help on this very hard journey that you're on.

Rumpskin · Aug 9th, 2008, 03:36 AM

My thoughts are with you Molly whatever you decide darling x

Uvlollypop · Aug 9th, 2008, 04:22 AM

thank you everyone :-) i was a bit down yesterday alot of things are getting on top of me but im a bit brighter today. thanks again

Omi · Aug 9th, 2008, 11:32 AM

Just wanted to say

Molly!

Omi xxx

embo216 · Aug 9th, 2008, 17:29 PM

We have lost two babies, paige and george within our family and george was buried and with paige they planted a rose bush for her with her ashes underneath, its quite a beautiful thing because we watched it grow and bloom every year, her mum also takes a few roses now and again and takes them home, kind of a memory of paige. Something that can hopefully grow and flourish, something that she didnt get to do. ]

This is a huge decision though and my thoughts are really with you. x

Uvlollypop · Aug 10th, 2008, 04:08 AM

i took the advice and wrote my story down, it made some things clearer i think. still not sure what im going to do with her ashes but im not going to rush anything

akamummy · Aug 10th, 2008, 04:50 AM

good idea with not rushing things sweet!

when the time is right you will know exactly what to do with them! I did!

Writing is very good and will help you vent!

Anyway, just thought Id pop in and

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FJL Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 1,810	A big to you hun. I don't have any advice about the ashes but I think that so long as you tell yourself that there is no hurry to decide what to do with them or where to put them, that you will one day know what to do I think writing is so theraputic and I think it is a great idea to tell your story. We're all here for you if you want to share it with us but if you don't then thats fine, just write it down. Even if you're not telling a bunch of people, you're getting those feelings and your story out of yourself and onto paper and that will really help on this very hard journey that you're on.

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Rumpskin Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7,261	My thoughts are with you Molly whatever you decide darling x

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Uvlollypop Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: milton keynes Posts: 5,790	thank you everyone :-) i was a bit down yesterday alot of things are getting on top of me but im a bit brighter today. thanks again

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Aug 9th, 2008, 11:32 AM	#27
Omi Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2007 Location: Glasgow Posts: 8,531	Just wanted to say Molly! Omi xxx

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Aug 9th, 2008, 17:29 PM	#28
embo216 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Essex Posts: 6,913	We have lost two babies, paige and george within our family and george was buried and with paige they planted a rose bush for her with her ashes underneath, its quite a beautiful thing because we watched it grow and bloom every year, her mum also takes a few roses now and again and takes them home, kind of a memory of paige. Something that can hopefully grow and flourish, something that she didnt get to do. ] This is a huge decision though and my thoughts are really with you. x

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Uvlollypop Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: milton keynes Posts: 5,790	i took the advice and wrote my story down, it made some things clearer i think. still not sure what im going to do with her ashes but im not going to rush anything

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akamummy Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Brisbane, QLD, Australia Posts: 1,338	good idea with not rushing things sweet! when the time is right you will know exactly what to do with them! I did! Writing is very good and will help you vent! Anyway, just thought Id pop in and

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