NikiJJones

I am feeling so low. My SIL and brother are expecting a baby in the same week my LO would have been due. I knew they were trying and have been worrying about it. They told my parents yesterday, and my Mum specifically asked them not to break it to me, and to let her (my Mum) tell me when the time was right to soften the blow. My Mum and I had discussed this and agreed it would be the least painful way for me to hear.
So my SIL proved what a truely evil cow she is by ringing me up late last night: my wedding anniversary and also the 2 month anniversary of my MC (she knew both these things) and told me, in a particularly gloating manner. Even down to telling me that our babies must have been conceived at the same time.
I just feel so cut up about it. It caused me to row with my Mum last night (we've now cleared it up) and with my DH and with my brother. Inside I feel like I am dying. Why has god chosen to give her this child (She already has three and leads such an unhealthy careless lifestyle) when he took mine away? I cannot bear that she will give birth to my parents' first grandchild and my grandparents first greatgrandchild, and all this just at the same time as I should have been having my baby. And why did she have to be so cruel about breaking it to me?

miel

oh i am so so sorry sweetheart...

Samo

i am so sorry. that was very careless and insensitive of her, i think she was just overexcited and not mindlessly not thinking about your feelings.

Mynxie

so sorry to read this. That's just bitchy of your SIL.

todteach

I'm so terribly sorry hun. I don't understand it all either. You're right, it isn't fair. I'm now crying after reading your post.

If I could reach over and give you a great big hug, you know I would.

Did your sil not understand that your mom had already spoken to you, or was she just trying to be a b**ch? I don't understand people like that, and guess I never will. Please avoid her calls, if she's going to be like that. That's what I've had to do with some of our "friends".

Huge hun.

Take care of yourself.
pm me if you'd like to vent

tansey

Sorry you have to go through this hun. She must be jealous of you or something - i bet you are much prettier, nicer, have loads of friends and are liked by everyone and she is not or is she just EVIL?
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babezone

im sorry to hear that hun...i think thats very selfish xxx

faith_may

I'm so sorry

leedsforever

so sorry hun

porkpie1981