Hi all

I lost my
this is my 2nd mc in a row........difficult to say how am I feeling........I had a d&c in march and then I was pg again in june.........started to spotting on sunday evening that changed to bleeding on monday afternoon......I had very heavy pain on tuesday and on wednesday.....couldn't go to office.......now a little bit better...........just wanted to ask if anyone has this kind of experience.......how long this pain stay and will it comes again and again and when this process will end

god is so unfair..........

Oh sweetheart, I am so very sorry for your loss.

I m/c in January and am ttc now. I am terrified this will happen again.

I cannot imagine how you are feeling at the moment.

Look after yourself sweets x

So sorry for you loss.xxx

am so so sorry.......wish i could take all of this pain away from you.....seeing new names in the mc room makes me sad.......it is so unfair......

my physical pain lasted for about a day......i think i went numb from the emotional and physical exhaustion after the first day though....

take care though....lots of love & hugs

I am very sorry for your loss. I just suffered a natural miscarriage myself last Wednesday night...in fact, I think last night was the first time I *really* cried. I don't think you are supposed to feel any certain way. I think you are just supposed to take each moment as it comes...

We are here to support you in any way we can. I certainly know being able to share my experience through this virtual forum has made all the difference in the world.

JM

So sorry for your loss I had my 2nd m/c on Tuesday just, I have been bleeding since last Thursday though! Take care and take each day as it comes.

If the pain doesn't get any better in 24 hours I would go and see your GP who will be able to advise you, you need to rest and keep your feet up.

When I miscarried in May, I couldn't deal with the emotional pain until I was physically feeling "okay". For me this took quite a bit longer as I needed a second d and c (eleven days after my first d and c for the same pregnancy) to remove retained products with infection. Then I had a viral infection afterward.

When I had my miscarriage, this was the first time that I saw my husband cry. We've been together for 15 years, married for one (high school sweethearts). This has been such a traumatic time for us. The girls on this site have been a wonderful support group for me.

Please make sure to go back into the doctor if you're still feeling strong pains. With me, it almost took my husband to drag me back in.....as I didn't want to go back to the hospital; I had convinced myself that they took our baby from us. And I really didn't want to relive the whole event. I had a missed miscarriage at 3 months.

I'm terribly sorry that you are going through this hun. You are going to need time off to grieve. I wish I could reach through my computer and give you a great big hug. Take care.