buffycat

hello...

first of all, i am so sorry for your loss.......i know it isn't easy and the emotioanl pain that comes with it is heartbreaking.....

i had a mc at 10 weeks back at the end of march, just one week before my planned scan.....that got brought forward to 'confirm' things......i didn't have anymore scans after that because it all happened naturally.... took 46 days to return as well

i really did think that i was pregnant in that first cycle after mc - but it wasn't tobe.....i'm still ttc now.....i hope and pray every month that it will be my turn too...

only you can decide when to ttc again.....all i can say is take some time to heal....both emotionally and physically.....

pm me if you want to talk more though.....

take care....luv & hugs

owo

I know what you mean, before we started TTC I always wanted to be a Mum and new it would be something we did in the future, but after i MC i was soo impatient and wanted to be a Mum..NOW!!!! I think once a woman gets into the frame of mind that they are going to be a Mum it is hard to go back to the "well it's something that will happen in the future" state of mind.

mariucha77

I'm sure it must have been hell waiting so long for AF. and I can't imagine MC after 10 weeks. it's like you're almost there, 2 weeks and first trim is almost over...
This second pregnancy, I didn't even have time to enjoy the news. I tested on friday night and by monday morning I was spotting.
The thing that gives me comfort is that I have a beautiful baby boy so I know I have to thank G-d for what I have but still when I see a pregnant woman I cannot stop from thinking "that could be me"

Good luck to you TTC. I'm sure you'll get pregnant soon enough.

And thanks everyone for your support!!! I'm glad I found these boards

NikiJJones

So sorry for your loss.
I recently lost my LO. He was dead at 6.5 weeks and I bled naturally at 7.5 weeks. I didn't have to go back for a scan or anything. I started TTC straight away, but did not manage another BFP that cycle. I'm now 2nd cycle and desperate. I understand how the desperation REALLY sets in after a MC.
Good Luck and hoping for a sticky one for you soon,
xxxx

gem

I feel the same. I'm currently going through a 2nd mmc. We just want things to be back to normal now so we can begin trying again and we will do at the first opportunity. Everyone is different, do what feels best for you. I've been told so many different things but I believe if you are sure you are ready physically and emotionally then go for it. I wish you lots of love and best wishes for future happiness! x