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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:10 PM
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#1 | | ttc#4 after stillbirth Chat happy BnB member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | We got Beau's test results last week
I had my final appointment with the hospital last week to see if they could find any other reason other than my fall to see why Beau died.
The doctor told me that although she can't be certain but she thinks that the placenta was weak before my fall. There was a large amount of damage to the placenta and areas of blood clots that she didn't think could have all been caused by a fall.
So she's concluded that the placenta was abnormal and it may have been, even if I hadn't fell, that Beau would have died later on in pregnancy as he demanded more life support from it.
I was then given his photos, which I still haven't looked at and his birth book with a lock of his hair inside.
I've been told that when (if) I get pregnant again I will have very regular scans throughout to monitor the baby's growth very carefully. She also gave me her number for if I get a BFP to arrange an early scan. So it looks like next time I will be very well looked after and hopefully (fingers crossed) it will not happen again. | | | | Status: Online
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:15 PM
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#2 | | preggers after 2 m/c's Chat happy BnB member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I dont know what to say, just wanted to offer 
I couldnt imagine going through that, you are one very brave lady.
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:17 PM
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:30 PM
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#4 | | Mum of terror's Chat happy BnB member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | At least now you've got some sort of answers. Lots of  | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:34 PM
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#5 | | PREGANT!! after 2 m/c's.. Chat happy BnB member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | aww sweetie!
i dont really no what to say, but it must be some comfort to have some answers..
thinking of you &your family still!
lots of love
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:42 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hi Sue
Im glad the doctors have managed to put your mind at rest chick & you feel a bit more reassured about your next pregnancy.
I know you've been beating yourself up about the fall even tho there's nothing you could've done to stop it but at least you know that none of this could've been prevented.
Losing Beau will always be painful for you but I hope having this knowledge gives you a little comfort
I hope this hasn't come across wrong babe... if you want to talk just PM me anytime xx | | | | Status: Online
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:48 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i am so sorry for your loss, i don't know what to say to other than that i am sorry you lost little Beau.
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:56 PM
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:58 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Am so glad that you got some answers you are so brave | | | | Status: Online
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Jun 30th, 2008, 16:05 PM
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