Happy

I had a m/c nearly 5 weeks ago at home. I went ot the hospital and they did a scan and took my bloods, the said it was likely to happen very soon and it did that afternoon. I was in terrible pain but once I had passed the sac I only bleed lightly for 2 days. I was told to take a pregnancy test 2 weeks later and if I came up negative which it did then I would have passed all the products. Hope you are ok xx

handley51299

I too am currently going through a loss. I believe I passed everything major yesterday just passing clots and bleeding today (probably will for several days to come). I am a nurse, working in surgery. I would have to say as long as you aren't presenting signs of an infection (fever, foul odor...) you are fine not to see a doctor unless it would make you feel better.

I am fortunate to work with my OB/GYN during his surgeries and have access to him as needed. When I started spotting this past Friday I just call our OB dept and they got in touch with him and I came in for an ultrasound that evening. I am so sorry for you loss and hope you find a way to forgive yourself for the things you feel are your fault - this is not your fault. My first (and only other pregnancy) was 10 years ago (my dd is 9), at that time I was very young and one of my thoughts was towards abortion (of course I didn't do it) - I think there is some natural pull to that thought at some point if you are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy, but please do not beat yourself up about it. Nothing happened to your pregnancy because of a fleeting thought.