NikiJJones

It makes perfect sense. I can be almost fine until someone offers me sympathy. I got home from my parents' house today and found a huge bunch of flowers from work mates and loads of sympathy cards. I just cried and cried. Somehow though the crying has to happen. Don't bottle it up.
Take your time before you go back into the world. I was stressing about missing work, until a friend confided in me about her miscarriage and told me that she had 2 full weeks off, and everyone was fine about it. I'm thinking I will now have a second week off too.
Give yourself as much time as you need. People will understand.
xxxx

wishes

I know exactly what you mean... before i went back to work, saw family etc i asked them to treat me normally and ust not ask me if i was ok.
I most definately wasn't ok, but i was getting on with it.
Thats all you can do hun. Take your time and do it whichever way you need to.

boobaby04

So sorry for you loss x x x

melbo

Oh honey i am so sorry I cant even begin to imagine the pain. I hope you will be ok soon.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx *hugs*

owo

I'm soo sorry hun.
I went through the same thing two and a half weeks ago. I was 10 weeks when i started bleeding and after a scan was told that my LO has stopped growing at 6 to 7 weeks. This was my first pregnancy too. It is so hard when you get this far along as you think you are home free as you are getting towards the end of first tri only to be told that you've suffered from a missed miscarriage.
You will have up days and down days. Cry when you feel the need to, don't keep it all inside. I thought i was doing ok but still i have the odd down day.
It really helps chatting with the other ladies on here who have been through the same thing.
If you want to chat i'm here.
Sending you lots of

Lucy_lu_84

Thanks girls!

Owo I know what you mean...I was finally starting to relax, thinking I was nearly out of the first tri...getting excited for my first scan. Only to find out I had a missed misscarriage!

I haven't been to doctors/hospital since it happened...do I need to? Also do i need to tell me our midwife or will hospital notify them that i had an emergency sacn?

polo_princess

oh hun im sorry to hear your sad news

WW1

I'm so sorry for your loss. I too went through the same recently - I was about 10 weeks but the baby had stopped growing at 6 weeks.

Hang on in there - there are lots of hugs on this forum if you need them.

Much love x

Lucy_lu_84

thanks again girls!
Only when you do thru it do you realise how common it actually is

*hugs everyone*

xXx Vamp xXx

Hey lucy, I just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and give you a big hug <3