Miscarriage & Loss Support

Brockie · May 27th, 2008, 13:06 PM

oh darling it is heartbreaking i know, and seems a cruel trick to have a missed mc, i was 10 weeks, went for scan and had stopped growing at 8 weeks*

you will feel up and down for a while, i did, but you will get pregnant again and next time im sure all will be fine* im nearly 11 weeks and had scan all is fine this time, you wont ever forget that first bean, but nature intervenes if things aren't quite right*

try and focus on the future and get lots of hugs from your family and friends*

take care

WW1 · May 27th, 2008, 13:09 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss OWO.

I have been through exactly the same thing. I had a missed miscarriage (dates said I was about 10 weeks, scan said it stopped at 6 weeks). It is a truly horrible time and I wish you huge

All I can say is that with each passing day I feel a little stronger - I'm now 2 weeks on from the scan and it is getting easier. It really helps to talk about it on here, with people who understand.

We are here if you need us.

Much love

Wendy

toot · May 27th, 2008, 13:15 PM

so sorry for your loss.

owo · May 27th, 2008, 13:27 PM

Thanks. I'm glad i have you all here to chat with. DH doesn't understand like you do. I got mad at him yesterday for not appearing to be even sad about it.
I know it doesn't seem as real for the guys until they see the scan as it does to us, and it's not his fault.
Really glad i can chat with you.

kadey · May 27th, 2008, 13:36 PM

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Originally Posted by owo

Thanks for your kind words.
I was 10 weeks. What made it worse was that i always knew that miscarriage is a high risk in the first trimester, but at 10 weeks i was starting to feel really positive that everything was going to be ok. I was told that it had stopped growing at 6 weeks. I understand that most occur then as it is a critical stage of development. It just took four weeks to miscarry.

this is what happened to me, I thought i was nearly 12 weeks when i started bleeding but when i had my scan they said my baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks. its a heartbreaking thing but i honestly promise you it gets easier with time. sending you lots of

xxx

owo · May 27th, 2008, 13:51 PM

I don't mean to sound horrible and i apologise in advanced if i do. Hearing so many of you have been through exactly the same thing does bring comfort to me that i'm not the only one. Sorry if that sounds really horrible.
I knew that loads of people have miscarriages, but getting to know you ladies on here, really does make me feel that I'm not alone.
Thankyou
xx

WW1 · May 27th, 2008, 16:05 PM

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Originally Posted by owo

I don't mean to sound horrible and i apologise in advanced if i do. Hearing so many of you have been through exactly the same thing does bring comfort to me that i'm not the only one. Sorry if that sounds really horrible.
I knew that loads of people have miscarriages, but getting to know you ladies on here, really does make me feel that I'm not alone.
Thankyou
xx

It doesn't sound horrible at all - it's exactly how I feel. I wouldn't wish a m/c on anybody but to know I'm not alone in my experience is a real comfort.

owo · May 27th, 2008, 16:08 PM

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Originally Posted by WW1

It doesn't sound horrible at all - it's exactly how I feel. I wouldn't wish a m/c on anybody but to know I'm not alone in my experience is a real comfort.

Glad i didn't come across as a complete bitch!!

maccy · May 27th, 2008, 16:09 PM

So sorry hun, we all know how you feel, it's the worst thing I've had to go through as an adult and some days I'm fine and others it hits you. take care, this is a fab part of the forum everyones lovely and you'll get lots of support.

Vickie · May 27th, 2008, 16:17 PM

So sorry for your loss

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