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Old May 22nd, 2008, 20:05 PM   #1
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Anybody else feeling hopeless and miserable.


Well that's it, i was depressed before, now i've lost everything pretty much, i'm trying to see the good bits in life, like warmth and food... Life seems hollow at the moment, i did though expect it to happen, despite being a really healthy person, mid 20s, it's taken four years to concieve, and within the first 8 weeks of my first pregnancy, after all that vomiting and general malaise, it's over. Actually, i suppose i can draw comfort again from the fact that i can now go back to exercising as much as i like, i don't feel ill all the time and i don't feel the urge to eat junk food anymore so no need to worry about getting fat, it would have been worth it now, but that's no consolation to the fact that i feel like my life and my relationship is falling apart.
I'm just glad i didn't tell anyone. I must have known.
I guess i'll have to get a chihuahua or something, and give up, this baby stuff causes me too much pain.

Anybody else feeling miserable?
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Old May 22nd, 2008, 20:09 PM   #2
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I'm so sorry for you loss and how you are feeling. It's a terrible time and I can only wish you big hugs.

I have times of feeling very miserable and others of feeling hopeful. I often flit from one to another in a very short space of time!

All I can say is that you're not alone - I know it's cyber world but there are lots of amazing people on this forum who are here to listen and offer support.

Lots of to you x
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Old May 22nd, 2008, 20:20 PM   #3
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Well that's it, i was depressed before, now i've lost everything pretty much, i'm trying to see the good bits in life, like warmth and food... Life seems hollow at the moment, i did though expect it to happen, despite being a really healthy person, mid 20s, it's taken four years to concieve, and within the first 8 weeks of my first pregnancy, after all that vomiting and general malaise, it's over. Actually, i suppose i can draw comfort again from the fact that i can now go back to exercising as much as i like, i don't feel ill all the time and i don't feel the urge to eat junk food anymore so no need to worry about getting fat, it would have been worth it now, but that's no consolation to the fact that i feel like my life and my relationship is falling apart.
I'm just glad i didn't tell anyone. I must have known.
I guess i'll have to get a chihuahua or something, and give up, this baby stuff causes me too much pain.

Anybody else feeling miserable?
I am so miserable tonight. I thought I was getting over my miscarriage until today. Life feels pointless at the moment. I can relate to some of your feelings. Talk about it-I found it helps through this site-everyone is supportive and many have had very similar experiences.
Take care-it does get easier I promise. I have had a bad day today but generally I have got a bit better with every day.
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I am so sorry you are feeling low and sad...

I have personally not been through ttc or ever been preg or mc, so all I can offer is love and hugs!



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